Do y'all keep a constant conversation on a 1st date?

NoirDynosaur

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I need my partner to be able to share a comfortable silence. I talk a lot but damn, non stop? :dahell: STFU.

Dudes be saying stupid shyt trynna fill the silence. It's ok to be quiet, sometimes we can vibe to the music. Just let the convo flow naturally.
I'm the same way.

Nothing wrong with silence it's just our mouths taking a break. Silence proves how comfortable you're with that person.
 

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Like for instance, do ya'll try to make sure there's virtually no quiet moments? Other than maybe moments of eating food.

Or do you just let the convo happen & fall naturally

Personally, I try my best to keep it going the entire time or saying something funny so the girl laughs. Feels awkward being with someone new and the conversation hits a long down period.

What about y'all? :ehh:


*oh wait, I forgot Coli nikkas are HOH when it comes to dates. :jbhmm:
idk just ask general questions and piggy back off that, that's why it's good to be well travelled to have shyt to talk about.
 

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I don't try to force it. At times it flows naturally with little, or no silence. Other times it's been like half silence.
 

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Just hit up a bar for a first date & after a few drinks....you'll loosen up & the conversation will flow...

I tend to only date girls that i have common ground with, if y'all like the same shyt you'll talk for hours & will open up doors for other topics in conversation
 
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