Do ya'll really care if other brehs is doing okay on here?

[SheWantTheD]

Telling someone to go to the gym, get in shape, improve their health and become more physically attractive is not bad advice.

Is it the end all be all? No but it will definitely help.

If a guy is having issues with attracting women, improving his appearance is a step in the right direction.

Are we supposed hand hold people to changing their lives? They gotta want to change for themselves

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

You can give somebody all the advice in the world
But you can’t make them apply it to their situation
Most people already have their minds made up
When it comes to hearing advice
They just want confirmation on their thoughts
As being the right way
Most nikkas on here are playing a character
You can see it from a mile away
They switch up their positions for daps
Forgetting the fukk shyt they said in the past
But most nikkas on here don’t care
It’s obvious when you have a known rapist
Who had a gun on the dresser
Applying pressure to get sex
Still get daps and recognition because he does blackity black so well
Then you have a thread where nikkas are blaming a female because a weirdo took pictures of her at the gym
That tells you the caliber of cat that’s on here
But get mad at a black man(which thecoli, especially TLR) prides itself on blackity black issues
But raise pitchforks and Twitter fingers like bytches
Or how about the thread on Jackie Chan’s kid
The amount of ain’t shyt nikkas and bytches in that thread
I could go on and on
So to end my long winded babble post
Nah
I’m not fukked up about anybody on here
Probably wouldn’t even be respectful if some of you died
For Real For Real
Nor do I expect anybody to give a shyt about my fukk ass or give me the same courtesy
We will never meet in life
Nor do I care to meet anybody of here in real life
Those are the facts

Who was the gun on the dresser dude? I remember that thread but can't remember who said it

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Op literally made them angry depressed threads on here numerous times

Then started attention whoring posting random pics and videos of him on here

Stop looking for pitty brah

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

You can give somebody all the advice in the world
But you can’t make them apply it to their situation
Most people already have their minds made up
When it comes to hearing advice
They just want confirmation on their thoughts
As being the right way
Most nikkas on here are playing a character
You can see it from a mile away
They switch up their positions for daps
Forgetting the fukk shyt they said in the past
But most nikkas on here don’t care
It’s obvious when you have a known rapist
Who had a gun on the dresser
Applying pressure to get sex
Still get daps and recognition because he does blackity black so well
Then you have a thread where nikkas are blaming a female because a weirdo took pictures of her at the gym
That tells you the caliber of cat that’s on here
But get mad at a black man(which thecoli, especially TLR) prides itself on blackity black issues
But raise pitchforks and Twitter fingers like bytches
Or how about the thread on Jackie Chan’s kid
The amount of ain’t shyt nikkas and bytches in that thread
I could go on and on
So to end my long winded babble post
Nah
I’m not fukked up about anybody on here
Probably wouldn’t even be respectful if some of you died
For Real For Real
Nor do I expect anybody to give a shyt about my fukk ass or give me the same courtesy
We will never meet in life
Nor do I care to meet anybody of here in real life
Those are the facts

Prue truth

 

[Neuromancer]

Situational. In your case you seem to be going through it. You have some dark posts on there and that’s me saying that. Overall I fukk w/ op

Thank you. I posted something in the Lil gems thread ill post it here. This is the type of breh I am. I want to see the brehs win too. So I try to give actionable advice along with real concern. Sometimes that last bit goes a long way.

I love coming in here to see that brehs are doing well with women. It makes me feel good. Like I won too.

 

[Neuromancer]

Telling someone to go to the gym, get in shape, improve their health and become more physically attractive is not bad advice.

Is it the end all be all? No but it will definitely help.

If a guy is having issues with attracting women, improving his appearance is a step in the right direction.

Are we supposed hand hold people to changing their lives? They gotta want to change for themselves

You really gonna strawman with me?

 

[Neuromancer]

Hope brehs doing well to an extent but if you read the room you can easily see this place is Arkham Asylum with mental illness running rampant

I recommend many a person to get help from a mental health professional before shyt gets worse. It worked for me.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I know tellin a breh stay strong or probably trying to give some basic advice they probably could’ve came up if they weren’t so anxious, ain’t much. It’s better than hating and bytching like most of you fakkits do.

Basic advice might be basic but it goes a long way.

Most people don’t follow basic advice or rules. If they did they’d see change.

Life isn’t this calculus 3 math equation that you have to work so hard to figure out.

Anything you need improvement on there are no shortage of professionals, books, guides on etc.

Someone wants to improve their social skills? Do toast masters.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

There's genuine people on here. I'm what you would call an empath and I'm sure there's alot of posters who are as well. I joke and pop shyt on here but I still want the best for all of yall

For the most part, we're black men and women who get on this forum as an outlet. Me personally, this is a safe haven from the foolishness, tone deafness, and cacery on Twitter, Facebook, etc

You can get advice and news on here, have thoughtful discussions, laugh, joke around, and get involved with fukkery every now and then. There's a bad side to all forums but I feel like the positives outweigh the negatives on here. Especially as it relates to being black. I don't know any other forum who holds racists accountable and has multiple pro black sub forums

Some posters genuinely care about others on here, some are indifferent, some hold resentment and some hate other posters

People vary in values and personalities. Its no different than what you see in the real world. Of course it's harder to read people's intentions on message boards than in person but you'll still be able to see. I don't think it's all or nothing it's just one of those things where you have to discern who really cares, who puts on a front showing fake concern, and who doesn't care at all

 

[semicko82]

No they don’t.

Most these dudes are one breakup away from being incels themselves, but try to virtue signal as if they have women figured out. I’ve fukked atleast over women shyt prolly going towards 60 (I dont keep count anymore) & these hoes still get me in my emotions sometimes & ghost/flake on me so I know the average Coli breh is having issues just like anyone else.You talk about money or trying to get on and u get the broke boy jokes. U get the life advice and then u hear “ur father shoulda taught u this”. Well no shyt but alotta fathers don’t or they father was never around. They think everything is a joke.

Alotta dudes tryna look down on the next man to make themselves feel & look better. I actually care about the next breh so I make advice or informational threads time to time & get joked on, or told Im giving out too much game or I’m lying/capping.

Dap and rep

 

[Piff Perkins]

But do you actually want to see men be well or do you only care because of the above. It's troubling but how is it fixed?

I think society is better when people are healthy and successful, so of course I want young men to do better. Much of society still benefits men. The failures to capitalize off that baffle me especially when it comes to education. Men aren’t going to college as much as they used to. Nor are they flocking to trade jobs. Many simply aren’t doing anything. Menial jobs while they play video games.

 

[Pete Wrigley]

I wish you all the best man.

Life is hard and I hope life is kinder to you all over time.

I mean that shyt

 

[Sad Bunny]

Yeah I want everyone to win and be healthy.

I might troll but I'm very empathic.

 

[Neuromancer]

The failures to capitalize off that baffle me especially when it comes to education.

Have you asked?

 

[Johnny Kilroy]

I love all yall except the one tranny