The Solid One
Superstar
WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ON YOUR AVI!There's a couple of hoes who i think might be eyeing me but i never spoke with them (or anybody) in like 2 months since i started there, i feel it would be awkward to just say something now.
Do y'all talk to people at your gym??
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The True HD
Billionaire
Won't say y'all are weird but y'all make it seem like taking a few seconds/minutes out your day to talk to others on the same self improvement path is far-fetched.....
I be cheering people on lowkey with my fist clenched when I see em gettin it in, sometimes I'll clap as they getting their final push in...... never an issue if someone wants to jump in on my sets, I like the motivation of seeing people push themselves n you might be able to correct bad form or learn a new technique watching them.....
"I see you" with a thumbs up
People I see in there regularly I might ask what they're working on today with a smile, then exchange names.... every time after that I say wassup and address them with their name to establish familiarity, daps to the dudes n high-fives/hugs with shorties when the comfort is there....
But I'm 6'6" n look good so maybe that's the disclaimer.... no one's too taken back by my actions but I see other ppl who still command respect n have charismatic personalities in the gym all day.... I've made good friends, business connects, n peeled a few shorties just off small convos here n there, so to each his own
I be cheering people on lowkey with my fist clenched when I see em gettin it in, sometimes I'll clap as they getting their final push in...... never an issue if someone wants to jump in on my sets, I like the motivation of seeing people push themselves n you might be able to correct bad form or learn a new technique watching them.....
"I see you" with a thumbs up
People I see in there regularly I might ask what they're working on today with a smile, then exchange names.... every time after that I say wassup and address them with their name to establish familiarity, daps to the dudes n high-fives/hugs with shorties when the comfort is there....
But I'm 6'6" n look good so maybe that's the disclaimer.... no one's too taken back by my actions but I see other ppl who still command respect n have charismatic personalities in the gym all day.... I've made good friends, business connects, n peeled a few shorties just off small convos here n there, so to each his own
Say hi and if they not with it, just continue on with your workout. It'll only be awkward if you make it that way. Just be like hey I've seen you here often and wanted to say hi. I'm Free, what's your name? Then just go from there. But you gonna be feeling the same way two months from now if you with this awkwardness state of mind.
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
Not at the gym, maybe like gyms that are discipline specific like a boxing gym or yoga gym, etc, but not at general fitness centers.
You’d have to really be about your business to approach me in those settings because I’m usually trying to attain some inner quiet, so I don’t interact much.
sometimes people will comment on my heavy bag usage, the occasional fine ass female will be doing her resistance band stretches and have her ass in my face while I’m on the weight bench, but typically everyone will leave me alone
You’d have to really be about your business to approach me in those settings because I’m usually trying to attain some inner quiet, so I don’t interact much.
sometimes people will comment on my heavy bag usage, the occasional fine ass female will be doing her resistance band stretches and have her ass in my face while I’m on the weight bench, but typically everyone will leave me alone
talk to men about their glistening muscles, brehs 
With me it's the opposite lol
I usually say the casual, "goodmorning" or just hi when I come in
And the people at the greeting desk, usually white women dont even say hi back or even acknowledge me lol
I literally tell the white woman, usually a young chick, hi as I come in
And they blatantly dont say anything
I'm theorizing it's because of my looks and that I'm black
Im not a bad looking dude and women have a rebellious nature,
So they might be "playing hard to get" even though I'm not hollering at them, just saying a respectful casual hello
And I also think its because they dont want to be seen talking to a black dude, especially a good looking one
I'm guessing they dont want the white guys in the gym to think that they like me lol
I usually say the casual, "goodmorning" or just hi when I come in
And the people at the greeting desk, usually white women dont even say hi back or even acknowledge me lol
I literally tell the white woman, usually a young chick, hi as I come in
And they blatantly dont say anything
I'm theorizing it's because of my looks and that I'm black
Im not a bad looking dude and women have a rebellious nature,
So they might be "playing hard to get" even though I'm not hollering at them, just saying a respectful casual hello
And I also think its because they dont want to be seen talking to a black dude, especially a good looking one
I'm guessing they dont want the white guys in the gym to think that they like me lol
1-8-7-Skillz
Superstar
Yes of course
you sound delusionalYaboysix
That nikka
nikkas really be anti social because of the internet! SMH.
Hate to see what happens when they shut all this shyt down!
Hate to see what happens when they shut all this shyt down!
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
Gym is the perfect place to network
