Do you agree with Steve Harvey about focusing in your 20s?

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If you don't do it in your 20s you won't do it, and I say this as someone who doesn't/didn't do 85% of what he was saying. If your 20s is "buckle down and focus" and 30s is "all business", when does fun happen?

Fun happens when you have money. That's not to say you can't work hard play hard, but when you got money and time it's way easier.
 

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Get your education, get your degree, find a solid career and at the same time have fun and pray to god u find that woman by 29

That’s my advice

I got everything except finding that right woman to married by 30. And at 40 the women that comes way are mentally damaged from previous relationships in they 20s with the players/ballers
It’s not hard to date younger women after 30. Women genuinely don’t care about a man’s age if he has what she’s looking for
 

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Dumbassness as usual, ain't nobody broke over here. College aged students catching flights are what age? You type just to type 90% of the time.


You said fun is easier when you have money, but it's not guaranteed.

And how do you know this?:comeon: I have cousins with master degrees in nursing and they do all types of bougie shyt. Hell, one just moved to Hawaii for a change.
 

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Everybody has their own journey
I had a period myself of fukking around and partying
I would even consider myself behind a few of my peers accomplishment wise. Thankfully I was able to get focused and get back on track.
If I could advise the youth, I would tell em strike a healthy balance. Chase goals but live a little too. p*ssy/dikk shouldn't sidetrack you if you don't let it
 

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:pachaha:Lol y’all something else. In the game of life and great success, there is no such thing as balance. A guy who’s balancing a marriage with kids, stands no chance against a man without the obligation. And there’s this thing called passion. If u love what u do, u love it with all ur heart. U focus on it. Women be damned. Family be damned. And I know that statement offends many. But if ur walking thru life dithering, playing juggles with ur priorities, you’ll most definitely come out average.


Usain bolt is said to be the fastest man. Well, next time he runs, put a 10 pound backpack on him. See if he remains the fastest man alive.

Y’all need to stop repeating what u heard from others.
Balance = learning to be okay with your mediocrity. Steve Harvey is 100% spot on with what he's saying.
 

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Men focus in your 20s but you wont get major success until your late 30s and 40s. Thats when you are going to be a major earner unless you get lucky.
 

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People need to create their own memories and learn their own lessons. That’s how you become a better version of yourself. But there’s nothing wrong with what he said. It‘s just a bit of guidance for young men and women so they don‘t stray too far from the path.
 

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It was a joke!
I'm 24, I have a full time landscaping job and I'm doing a few courses online as well as freelancing, I honestly hate it tbh :francis:

Outside of going out maybe every other weekend, my down time is spent shytposting :wow:

Could you imagine, picking up trash at a commercial property and seeing people around your age having fun, doing lord knows what on a weekday?

But yeah, hopefully I'll be able to have "fun" in my 30's :francis:
 
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