Fair. It just gets labeled as "incel shyt" because there really are no hard rules to attraction. In my experience as a short, often broke, bald, borderline old mothafukka for most of my adult life who seemingly gets badder and badder women the older I get... I've come to find, there's only a baseline you need, not an exact target.
Agreed. But the incel label is getting overused and applied to real life. Just like if you or I were the son of a billionaire, we would probably get the treatment of someone with 10+ years of experience when it comes to getting certain opportunities. Some people have inherent advantages in different areas of life.