Do you approach women aggressively?

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different approach for different folks.

This is what I do.

On a daily basis I usually see maybe 4 or 5 females I wouldn't mind getting to know, however I dont just approach the first pretty face I see.

So what I do is I quickly decided how to approach them base off looks ( I know it may seem baseless to you but it works for me). If she presents herself accordingly( demeanor, attitude, dress) then ill give her the benefit of the doubt and approach her calmly and politely. There is no need for all the extra b.s when you have confidence. If shes receptive to it fine, if not :yeshrug:

for the ones in the middle, it is a little different. I still use the same approach, but with less patience. the convo is usually a minute or two and Im good.

If she seems like a rat then the appraoch is different ( I usually dont even waste my time because I know my self worth. p*ssy is good, but its not worth your health:usure:) im on my straight bullshyt ( touching, aggressive, real goldy from the mack type shyt)

in short, it depends on her. If you seem like a rat, then im a treat you accordingly, if not, then........
 

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Somebody already said it, it's not about being aggressive its about being assertive. An aggressive or an aloof approach works as long as you correctly assert yourself. You could be bold enough to rap but not close the deal, or you could go into a shell when you see a girl you like or you could be the opposite of those things. Personally, the aloof approach works best for me. Creates a sense of mystery and intrigue, the less you give a fukk the more they want you.
 

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Nope, as a matter of fact I rarely approach women nowadays unless I have a direct reason to :yeshrug:



One person I never wanted to be seen as was a thirsty ass nikka :huhldup:

fukking brilliant.

Play conversational red rover. If she brings up something you know a lot about, then you probably have enough relevant conversation material for a short while. What exactly do you expect to do otherwise?

"Hello, my name is Ned. I enjoy puzzles, wine and cheese parties, and a nice long afternoon reading Jan Austen. What are you into?" :D

"Avoiding people with critically underdeveloped social skills." :usure:
 

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It only works for you because you aren't ugly, not because it is a particularly effective strategy.
If an ugly dude did ANYTHING close to my ear, he's getting punched.

:what: I thought that you were a man. LOL @ the man that you attracted to the most is the a$$hole-ish dude.
 

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Being married its easier to see all the coochie I could be getting. Just smiling and being friendly with women will get you more than hunting them down and being aggressive. I get more play now that I'm comfortable and don't give a fukk than i did when I was actualy pursuing women. bytches don bought me drinks a couple times.
 

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Dude did something right. He didn't get the number but girl was thinking about him so much she made a thread.
 

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Hell yeah I'm aggressive folk. Kind like this here cuz.

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Being married its easier to see all the coochie I could be getting. Just smiling and being friendly with women will get you more than hunting them down and being aggressive. I get more play now that I'm comfortable and don't give a fukk than i did when I was actualy pursuing women. bytches don bought me drinks a couple times.

thats how it works. when ur single and dont have a chick, there are just certain signals about u that people can pick up on. u can try to hide it but its hard.
 

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:why: are you always on here comin' at females sideways sayin' dumb shyt? :what: :leostare: Chill out.

That's how I talk to women. I don't disrespect them. At least, not too much. :skip: It actually works for me n they like the humor.
 

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Grabbing is aggressive and the best way to initiate with women. Find a way for it to make sense, and grab her arm or shoulder firmly while assertively telling her whatever information makes sense at the time.
 
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