Yeah I argee a lot of colleges even specifically target certain demographics of people to funnel into their school. I think John Oliver did a piece about it too. Most the people I went to HS got or is working to attain their degree.
My two closest friends both have Masters but they aren’t boastful about it or anything. It’s more like that’s what’s required in their field of work to be most successful so they got their degrees and live normally
There is a significant difference between chicks at Howard Hampton Spellman and FAMU.
So not the school per-say but definitely the quality of women. it could also be because the tuition and the types of students who able to afford Spellman,Howard and Hampton tuition .
No offense. But if you're familiar with girls at Howard Hampton or Spellman a significant portion of them come from suburban, middle class upper middle class homes.
I haven't dated a woman without a bachelors or higher since I graduated college myself.
But have I dated ivy league or high private university women, no.
Like I knew a chick from my job , who went to Stanford. The first question they ask you is what college you went to, I only went to small state school. You could see she didn't take me serious after she saw I went to a state school.
Chicks who go high prestiged colleges, usually only want men on that level. Or you have to make high figures for them to think you are on their level.
Yeah, Hampton, Howard, Spellman get the high society black women
...along with Morehouse, those are the HBCU ivies.
I do think their are tiers to HBCUs ...so outside of that HBCU Ivy Tier, most remaining HBCUs fall in a tier below that. Then you have a few in the bottom tier that essentially have zero admissions standards, a really low endowment and a high school size matriculation.
No offense. But if you're familiar with girls at Howard Hampton or Spellman a significant portion of them come from suburban, middle class upper middle class homes.
Thanks for clarifying. Are those schools really that expensive? The relatives that I have that did attend an HBCU went to Fisk. In fact, I think that is the only HBCU that is represented at least on my mother side going back to her father's grandfather. But it seems like many of the people I know that went to Fisk came from well-to-do families too. Not sure what tuition is like though.
Thanks for clarifying. Are those schools really that expensive? The relatives that I have that did attend an HBCU went to Fisk. In fact, I think that is the only HBCU that is represented at least on my mother side going back to her father's grandfather. But it seems like many of the people I know that went to Fisk came from well-to-do families too. Not sure what tuition is like though.
I forgot about Fisk... I think at one point you could argue Fisk was a premier HBCU at the top of the tier right below the Ivy...if not an Ivy... Tuskeegee is another. Shaw, too low key. And a number of others. WSSU, A&T, Central. ..all have prominent, older alums...the Ivy Tier was arguably more inclusive in the years before most of us were born but shytty leadership poor money management and lack of alum dollars have fukked up so many HBCUs and dropped their tier .
It don't matter to me, really. My mom's didn't have a degree and she did well for herself, so I'm sure their other women like her out there. That's cool if she got one though, but what I don't like is when that's all they have to offer...
I dated plenty chicks with a degree but "some" was exhorting unnecessary power, shyt was not needed, as a man that's extremely emasculating. I have degrees as well, are you go let me be the man in the relationship? Then you can even fukk good (not willing to explore), and you cant cook either.
My pops made sure my mom's was good, but she made sure he was getting fukked good and she was cooking, and she worked... I know she was giving it up because (to my knowledge), he never cheated.
It don't matter to me, really. My mom's didn't have a degree and she did well for herself, so I'm sure their other women like her out there. That's cool if she got one though, but what I don't like is when that's all they have to offer...
I dated plenty chicks with a degree but "some" was exhorting unnecessary power, shyt was not needed, as a man that's extremely emasculating. I have degrees as well, are you go let me be the man in the relationship? Then you can even fukk good (not willing to explore), and you cant cook either.
My pops made sure my mom's was good, but she made sure he was getting fukked good and she was cooking, and she worked... I know she was giving it up because (to my knowledge), he never cheated.
I got a degree, but I'm not harp on a woman having a degree....
A lot of people just don't know that person's situation in life..plus having a degree doesn't mean that woman is nice, responsible, honest, etc, etc...
Now look at the huge single rate among sistas who are college educated that won't talk to a brother because he doesn't have a degree... However there are many brothers who are making a good living as a landscaper, construction worker, manager at a retail or McDonald's jobs but u have these type of women who live their dating life off of image or what they family or friends think.
This says you have a clear plan for your life and some discipline. You're reliable, look acceptable, and can communicate effectively. Am I wrong? I bet positive rep I'm right. I'm going to go further and say you've accomplished things in your life that people admire. You're also ambitious and have a reasonable amount of resources for your age group.
I want to point out this thread attracted who I thought it would. They're not posters I consider stupid or not about shyt. Shout out to ya'll, even the ones who didn't post and may be lurking.
There are a few posters I know do not attract anyone, let alone a woman about some shyt. This thread was a low key troll thread.
These dudes are salty and have little value in the real world because they spend too much theorizing rather than accomplishing things in life. They claim they come from strong families and want to father a strong family. They talk about politics, economics, sex, romance, and how men who are achieving things should behave. They speak and judge men of value harshly and have no value. A man of value doesn't talk about their plan, player hate on another man getting it, or speak without experience.
A man of value has a code of conduct they stick to. A man of value is sought after and viewed as someone who can get the job done. A man of value has a profession, a skill set, or a business. They don't always need a job, car, etc because they can make money and gather resources in a variety of ways. A man of value knows children or retards focus on good and bad etc. A man of value, a fukking winner, focuses on the plan and getting the job done.
A man of value attracts things of value to them. Women, opportunities, friends, etc. If good opportunities and women of value aren't available to a man it's because they haven't earned it. Someone who works hard on themselves every day and has worked their ass off to be somebody does not want to be around someone who isn't shyt and will never be shyt.
The only defense to what I'm saying is to go out there and be somebody. Show me something little buddy. Cowboy the fukk up and get some skills, money, degrees, hustle, or something. A man needs resources and if you don't have them type less and go acquire resources.
Hustle harder than you hate. Get some money and stop being dirty.
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