Do you believe in potential to be attractive?

[The ADD]

Of course.......

That said attraction for most sane people is a pretty wide spectrum. Just like a person can be super into their favorite celebs, IG Model, etc. They can also be into someone regular just the same. Generally present yourself well and you should be fine.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Yes.

Whether it be money, sense of style, nice body or just the general vibe/energy you give off ... everybody has something that they can exploit about themselves to become attractive.

 

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

I don't think everybody can be Meagan Good/Idris Elba gorgeous, that's genetics. But everyone can make themselves look decent, barring some sort of birth defect or bad accident.

 

[Uitomy]

Honestly for me my hair got me more attention than my looks

I had a killmonger going on and girls were just acting all kinds of ways for me, trying to cook me shyt, buying me shyt, randomly apologizing for acting like bytches, letting me say whatever I wanted,


I cut that shyt off and they fell alllll the way back


Grew my hair out got a curly fro and they back again, even with my alopecia

 

[Shadow King]

To go from undesirable to "swimming" you have to change more than 2 things. No one is swinging from one extreme to the next with a tweak.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Clearly yeah. Most people and especially dudes are too lazy and lame to reach their potential looks wise. A lot of dudes are comfortable being overweight, dress boring and will keep a basic cut at best. It takes work for most people to look their best.

 

[Canada Goose]

No I do not. I lost weight, have clear skin, dress nice, put products in my hair to make it curly, keep facial hair neat and still get called ugly. I can't improve on my aura cause of my disability and mental illness.

I'm a lost cause in terms of looks, I live in NYC which makes things 1000x worse.

 

[Amor fati]

Clearly yeah. Most people and especially dudes are too lazy and lame to reach their potential looks wise. A lot of dudes are comfortable being overweight, dress boring and will keep a basic cut at best. It takes work for most people to look their best.

What do you define as 'dress boring' and what exactly is a basic cut? A level 2 on the top and a Level 1 on the sides including the shape up?

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

What do you define as 'dress boring' and what exactly is a basic cut? A level 2 on the top and a Level 1 on the sides including the shape up?

It's self explanatory. Anything that doesn't take too much effort is what I mean by basic.

 

[Strapped]

I'm just naturally beautiful & a pretty negro

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Clothes & how you keep your facial/hair along with how you carry yourself (self-esteem) in the public helps alot.

I learned that women can see what kinda man you are by the way you carry yourself in the public, that's why alot of dudes have trouble attracting women.

Nobody in this world is too damn ugly or fat to not have somebody romantically just gotta learn how to communicate better, there's somebody for everybody just gotta be realistic in what you're looking for like don't be expecting dimes when you ain't worth a dime (no pun intended ).

 

[Amor fati]

It's self explanatory. Anything that doesn't take too much effort is what I mean by basic.

Interesting, I've seen them white boys wear basic jeans, Cardigan and White canvas sneakers and somehow appear to catch the eye of the female.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Interesting, I've seen them white boys wear basic jeans, Cardigan and White canvas sneakers and somehow appear to catch the eye of the female.

I'm not white so the same rules don't apply to me. If other people can be basic and still get women then that's cool for them but that doesn't work for me.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Stupid thread.

You born #UglyGang, you die #UglyGang.

 

[Balla]

That’s some bittersweet shyt fr. I thought I never needed game because girls put all the work in for me, but once I got out of a social circle settings, where chicks feel comfortable with putting in work for me, I gotta actually spit game with my mouthpiece.

Luckily I’m working on mines tho.

As a nikka thats been quite handsome his whole life, looks only gets you some attention.

It’s what comes out your mouth that intrigues them and keeps them interested.

And it’s your ability to be a solid, thorough nikka that makes her want to stick around.