Do you believe in soul mates?

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Not so much the SOUL part but like that there's one person out there that'd you'd vibe with perfectly.

That's like the perfect mix of your strong points but also your weak points so yall would compliment each other perfectly.

Also, if you do believe that. Do you believe that that person fits in your current requirements to date someone. An example being, I like chubby/big girls but that my "soul mate" could be some skinny girl.

:patrice:


Nah, I don't think there is only one person. But I think there are people out there that you connect with on a different level and they are far and few in between. You can probably enjoy your life with almost anyone, but for those lucky enough to spend there life with someone they just vibe with completely, those people get to experience something greater than those that just end up with someone they are just "happy" with.
 

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No, how fukked would you be if your soulmate was born in some remote village on the other side of the world? Just off the numbers your "soulmate" should be either Chinese or Indian if soulmates actually existed.

There are thousands of people very much compatible with you on this planet.
 

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I'm not sure, I've met so many women in weird ways I be feeling like they were all my soulmates
 

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Look no girl/guy is really that "special" etc., before you met them you never even knew they existed.

all this the one etc is all hogwash, it doesn't matter how you met or what "chemistry" you think you have.

because you know what?? you can love someone with all your heart, meet them like it was out of a movie etc. but if they dont feel the same way it wont work.

That's all it takes to work in a relationship both people wanting to be together and making it work

So yes these women are not Special, many just come and go.

I remember when I was with my ex fiance I was in "love", she was the "one", then it ended, another ex ended etc. etc., second girl I ever loved, I loved her more than my ex fiance, the way we met, the things we went through i thought she was the "one" :heh: again, its all in your head,

sad to say it but if you find a female attractive and date her long enough you will think she is the "one" or "special" its all hogwash brehs.

The only woman that will ever be special is the one you marry and even then only half of marriages last

its like if you date a girl that has a identical twin, or a close sister in age that looks alike you can date one
whats really the difference between her and her sister or her and her twin? nothing just the emotional connection you have forged.

Just like you'll stalk your exes fb profile but not that old chick you never found attractive only difference is the emotional connection

Once you kill the emotional attraction you win
 

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Not so much the SOUL part but like that there's one person out there that'd you'd vibe with perfectly.

That's like the perfect mix of your strong points but also your weak points so yall would compliment each other perfectly.

Also, if you do believe that. Do you believe that that person fits in your current requirements to date someone. An example being, I like chubby/big girls but that my "soul mate" could be some skinny girl.

:patrice:

No. And the bolded is the reason why.

Ain't a thing "perfect." Perfect is a fantasy.
 

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Nah, I don't think there is only one person. But I think there are people out there that you connect with on a different level and they are far and few in between. You can probably enjoy your life with almost anyone, but for those lucky enough to spend there life with someone they just vibe with completely, those people get to experience something greater than those that just end up with someone they are just "happy" with.
THIS
and tbh some things are way more than coincidences i seen it happen tbh
not everybody lucky to get one
 

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nah when you check it life is really just some really circumstantial shyt
i could have walked past the love of my life yesterday while i was picking up groceries at walmart but i chose not to approach her and bam that was my chance of finding the "right one" either fully gone or delayed heavily.....which woman out of the thousands i see on my daily commutes to work would i be compatible with should i make convo or nah? thats really all it is:ehh:
 
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