All mating arrangements are constructs. Attraction is natural, what you do with it is up to you.
Also if we go back to polygamy we should go back to how it used to be, only Men with abundant resources get more than 1 woman and broke boys die off in war. Bet you then y'all will be crying for monogamy again .
There’s a reason why Sex is mostly just physical for men. We are designed to spread our seed.
Have you seen the effects of men spreading their seed within their own gene pool???
Biologically, monogamy is the ordinary course of nature.
Nykkas love using mental gymnastics to justify hedonism.