Do you believe people can change?

Joined
Dec 12, 2016
Messages
335
Reputation
-20
Daps
625
Im trying to change for the better than I was in the past and i truly believe i will. It start inside, mentally. Dramatic events in a persons life can change a person in better or worse.
 

yardman

Afro-pessimist
Joined
Sep 27, 2014
Messages
11,476
Reputation
10,122
Daps
62,565
Reppin
Whitehall
Depends on their age to be honest with you.
After a certain age you're set in your ways.
A person in their 20s can change a lot easier than some in their 40s, 50s or 60s can.​
 

Mike the Executioner

What went on up there? Poppers and weird sex!
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
11,269
Reputation
4,392
Daps
44,095
Reppin
Brooklyn, New York
People can change, but they have to change for themselves. You can't make them do it. And the majority of people in the world don't want to change.

A couple years back, I had this one friend and we were cool for a few months. Then one day, she just told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. That's when I found out that she never considered me a friend, just an associate and I was one of many people she was cutting off. I tried figuring out what I could do to change things, I argued with her over and over, I tried compromising with her but somewhere down the line, she told me straight up she didn't give a shyt about anything I said or did. After that, I gave up and realized she was never going to change. :mjcry: Nothing I said or did would ever get through to her, and if we're ever cool again, she's going to have to be the one to fix it. Sucks because I really liked talking to her.

Last year, her boyfriend contacted me for reasons I'm not getting into and it pissed me off because it made me realize how much she hadn't changed after a few years. Lots of people don't see the error of their ways until it's too late. I really don't know why she turned all :leostare: on me, but at some point, I had to keep it moving.
 

MaxPain

Hispaniola Exchange Student
Supporter
Joined
Dec 14, 2016
Messages
18,669
Reputation
10,455
Daps
118,461
Reppin
Where It’s Not Safe
No , unless something tragic or big happens.


Otherwise, most people are who they are especially after a certain age.
 

MaxPain

Hispaniola Exchange Student
Supporter
Joined
Dec 14, 2016
Messages
18,669
Reputation
10,455
Daps
118,461
Reppin
Where It’s Not Safe
People can change, but they have to change for themselves. You can't make them do it. And the majority of people in the world don't want to change.

A couple years back, I had this one friend and we were cool for a few months. Then one day, she just told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. That's when I found out that she never considered me a friend, just an associate and I was one of many people she was cutting off. I tried figuring out what I could do to change things, I argued with her over and over, I tried compromising with her but somewhere down the line, she told me straight up she didn't give a shyt about anything I said or did. After that, I gave up and realized she was never going to change. :mjcry: Nothing I said or did would ever get through to her, and if we're ever cool again, she's going to have to be the one to fix it. Sucks because I really liked talking to her.

Last year, her boyfriend contacted me for reasons I'm not getting into and it pissed me off because it made me realize how much she hadn't changed after a few years. Lots of people don't see the error of their ways until it's too late. I really don't know why she turned all :leostare: on me, but at some point, I had to keep it moving.

So basically u was friendzoned
 

Nemesis

Superstar
Joined
May 7, 2012
Messages
7,397
Reputation
2,361
Daps
25,419
Reppin
NULL
El hajj Malik el Shabazz isnt like the rest of you peons. Most people don't have the awareness to even look into themselves to see that they need to change.


oh.... so basically you are saying people can change ..... you talk about people lacking awareness but you dont even realise you are contradicting yourself .....

the irony
 

Mike the Executioner

What went on up there? Poppers and weird sex!
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
11,269
Reputation
4,392
Daps
44,095
Reppin
Brooklyn, New York
So basically u was friendzoned

No, because I was never into her like that and we never dated. I've been put in the friend zone before, but in this case, she didn't even want to be friends. She said she was going through something and she was cutting off multiple people that didn't have a place in her life. I was just one of those people. :yeshrug:
 

MaxPain

Hispaniola Exchange Student
Supporter
Joined
Dec 14, 2016
Messages
18,669
Reputation
10,455
Daps
118,461
Reppin
Where It’s Not Safe
No, because I was never into her like that and we never dated. I've been put in the friend zone before, but in this case, she didn't even want to be friends. She said she was going through something and she was cutting off multiple people that didn't have a place in her life. I was just one of those people. :yeshrug:
Sounds like a user breh. Bullet dodged
 

ill_will82

What you see, is what you get
Joined
Dec 2, 2016
Messages
10,627
Reputation
2,954
Daps
24,885
Yes.

People can change no matter how young or old. It's all about mindset & attitude. Depends on what a person is trying to improve in their life habits, diet, living situation etc., It's on the individual.
 
Top