Do you care if you end up old and alone?

[shutterguy]

Nah, I got a 4K OLED QLED TV, badass audiophile equipment, and the internet. I'm good

Fixed for me,

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

If you end up that way, you probably fukked up...

 

[Swirv]

Exactly,,, both men and women reach that 40 years old age and they notice co workers and friends all cuddled up, doing things and u still out here acting like u good but deep down u wish u had that one person your mindset change

That’s why u have so many older women desperate and Rushing into relationships with the first nikka with something going on

men too. Look at all these older man marrying foreign women from internet interaction.

As we get older I can see why a person would like someone to share life with.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I'll probably concede defeat and marry at some point. Probably in my 40s. Right now though, I enjoy the freedom and solitude I have by myself. I sometimes wonder if women realize how draining they are. I see why older brehs spend more time at work/at the bar than being at home.

 

[Squirrel from Meteor Man]

Nobody should want to be old and lonely

 

[Methodical]

Nah, I got a 4K OLED TV, badass audiophile equipment, Tidal HiFi and the internet. I'm good

Don't you want any person to say goodbye to you before you gone?

Let me tell you this story, My father's Uncle was dying that he had cancer in stage 5, nobody shows up, the clock is ticking so he can die anytime. The last place he was at the hospital. my father and my aunts showed up and visited him at the hospital in Chicago. He was dying when he saw them and it lighten his mood up and put his big smile on his face and he was tearing up and happy to see them so they can say goodbye and love you. Guess what...the next day and he's gone. My pop and aunts glad they went to that day before too late.

 

[Methodical]

@Ciggavelli

Look at the movie, Godfather movies.

Vito, his last moment was spending time with his grandson, he enjoyed it and that was his best last moment for him to spent time with his grandson, screamed for help and ran to somebody to save his grandfather.



Look at Michael, his last moment was sitting alone in the chair he was thinking how he lost his family and regret it everything and he was sad and depressed, with his dog that don't give a shyt about him

 

[Ciggavelli]

Don't you want any person to say goodbye to you before you gone?

Let me tell you this story, My father's Uncle was dying that he had cancer in stage 5, nobody shows up, the clock is ticking so he can die anytime. The last place he was at the hospital. my father and my aunts showed up and visited him at the hospital in Chicago. He was dying when he saw them and it lighten his mood up and put his big smile on his face and he was tearing up and happy to see them so they can say goodbye and love you. Guess what...the next day and he's gone. My pop and aunts glad they went to that day before too late.

I hear what you’re saying. I’ve actually personally been in that situation. My lung collapsed like 13 times when I was 17 & 18 and the last time it almost threatened to collapse the other lung. Thought I was a goner. Then the lung wouldn’t heal because it was so scarred from all the collapses. I was in the hospital, all alone the day I had surgery that could kill me. Nobody showed up, no parents, nobody. It was shytty, but oh well. After people neglect you for so long and being in a deep depression so long, you get used to; prefer it even.

you might say, but Cigg you were drinking all crazy because you were so lonely. I dunno about that, but perhaps.

I haven’t been on a date since I got sober, haven’t gone to a party, none of that shyt. You know what, I’m okay with that

I do think something may be wrong with me, and I may need to address that in the future, but I’m good right now. Listening to music, meditating, watching good tv shows, reading philosophy. I feel pretty good.

 

[Methodical]

I hear what you’re saying. I’ve actually personally been in that situation. My lung collapsed like 13 times when I was 17 & 18 and the last time it almost threatened to collapse the other lung. Thought I was a goner. Then the lung wouldn’t heal because it was so scarred from all the collapses. I was in the hospital, all alone the day I had surgery that could kill me. Nobody showed up, no parents, nobody. It was shytty, but oh well. After people neglect you for so long and being in a deep depression so long, you get used to; prefer it even.

you might say, but Cigg you were drinking all crazy because you were so lonely. I dunno about that, but perhaps.

I haven’t been on a date since I got sober, haven’t gone to a party, none of that shyt. You know what, I’m okay with that

I do think something may be wrong with me, and I may need to address that in the future, but I’m good right now. Listening to music, meditating, watching good tv shows, reading philosophy. I feel pretty good.

Yes. It can torture your mind to the point where you take your life and end the pain for yourself.

People tell me Cancer is the most fatal disease.Maybe they haven't felt loneliness and depression together. The most deadliest of life taking disease are those which are not even visible on your body. It is the mental anguish no one can see which takes you inside.

Everyday I hear about a suicide. My advise to people here is to never outcast someone.

It is painful for people who are left alone. Be kind and gentle not because of the fear of God or something else but because it feels better not to be an a$$hole everyday. I suggest people feeling lonely to start talking and share. Don't remain in a shell.If you die and look from above you'll see many people wondering why you didn't talk to them because there are nice people in this world and you just have to find them. Especially you're currently recovery from AA addition. the way you throw on the " rubbed me the wrong way. So you think Eminem doesn't care if he die alone without his daughter on his side?. You would be happy if your GF stays on your side if you're dying on your last breath.

 

[Ciggavelli]

Yes. It can torture your mind to the point where you take your life and end the pain for yourself.

People tell me Cancer is the most fatal disease.Maybe they haven't felt loneliness and depression together. The most deadliest of life taking disease are those which are not even visible on your body. It is the mental anguish no one can see which takes you inside.

Everyday I hear about a suicide. My advise to people here is to never outcast someone.

It is painful for people who are left alone. Be kind and gentle not because of the fear of God or something else but because it feels better not to be an a$$hole everyday. I suggest people feeling lonely to start talking and share. Don't remain in a shell.If you die and look from above you'll see many people wondering why you didn't talk to them because there are nice people in this world and you just have to find them. Especially you're currently recovery from AA addition. the way you throw on the " rubbed me the wrong way. So you think Eminem doesn't care if he die alone without his daughter on his side?. You would be happy if your GF stays on your side if you're dying on your last breath.

Honestly, I’m kinda going through an existential crisis. I feel like I understand being, as in I understand the multiverse is absolutely infinite. Everything is happening, everything is right and wrong at the same time. Nothing matters. So when there’s no point to anything, might as well live for materialistic things. I was talking to my psychiatrist and she was like are you okay with being by yourself? I always said yes. Then last month I was like, it might be fun to hang out with some like minded people and discuss things we have in common. So, my office mate asked me to hang out and we went to a dinner spot. It was kinda fun.

but, I used to only be fun when I was drinking. Everybody loved hanging out with me and I enjoyed it too. Point blank, I dunno how to have fun with people sober. I’m like 20 months completely sober, which I guess is still early on. Maybe I can figure it out. I just know I don’t wanna be an active addict or drunk because I’ll accidentally kill somebody, lose my job (and money), or kill myself from drinking or drugging too much. I like being sober. But, it’s such a different life.

my doc was like go to some meetups. I was like, well I do like computers and music maybe I could do that

clearly I want some sort of interaction, as I’m on several forums on the internet. I just dunno really

 

[Dave24]

Dont we all die alone regardless?

 

[MJ Truth]

I want to be alone now and for the next 5 years. But I don't want to be alone in old age. Which means I probably need to find someone to be with right now.

 

[semicko82]

Yes. It can torture your mind to the point where you take your life and end the pain for yourself.

People tell me Cancer is the most fatal disease.Maybe they haven't felt loneliness and depression together. The most deadliest of life taking disease are those which are not even visible on your body. It is the mental anguish no one can see which takes you inside.

Everyday I hear about a suicide. My advise to people here is to never outcast someone.

It is painful for people who are left alone. Be kind and gentle not because of the fear of God or something else but because it feels better not to be an a$$hole everyday. I suggest people feeling lonely to start talking and share. Don't remain in a shell.If you die and look from above you'll see many people wondering why you didn't talk to them because there are nice people in this world and you just have to find them. Especially you're currently recovery from AA addition. the way you throw on the " rubbed me the wrong way. So you think Eminem doesn't care if he die alone without his daughter on his side?. You would be happy if your GF stays on your side if you're dying on your last breath.

Hypothetical question, what if you're lonely and you tried to talk and share but most people don't give a shyt?

 

[Swirv]

Dont we all die alone regardless?

Most of the death I’ve witnessed, loved ones were at the bedside of the person dying. With the exception of one person who died alone in the hospital when it didn’t have to be that way

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

ima Always have hoes.my hoes loyal they will take care of me in my old age.

If not I’ll find new old hoes to take care of me.

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