Do you consider yourself anti-social?

[InDePickWest]

I prefer to be alone 90% of the time. The other 10% I only wanna kick it with people I want to hang around that moment. Very picky and unrealistic.

 

[HoloGraphic]

"Selectively" social is the Facebook term.

But I'm on straight survival tips right now. Have been for awhile. I don't have time to waste that isn't putting money in my pocket, lest I be out on the streets.

But when I'm set, I'm usually life of the party.

 

[Yogi]

I tend to like most people that I meet and can find common ground with them that allows me to carry on a good conversation. But, for some reason, I have no interest in socializing in my have free time. I don't invite people over, and I kind of dread when people invite me to a party or get together. I just like to spend my free time chilling alone or with my close family.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Seems to me you need new friends with a different mentally ..... I feel the same way my "so called friends" are to immature for me.

The older you get the harder it is to meet people. I have some associates at work but they are all married. Not that i mind hanging out with married folks but stuff like that makes me feel weird. Plus they all are a lot more older than me.

 

[Tunez]

Is it true breh?

Yea, I'm not joking

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

For the most part I'm just always alone. It's been like that for my whole life pretty much.

Other than my friends and family I don't go out of my way to meet and/or interact with people. I consider myself a loner and a recluse. I just have a real short fuse and I have a low tolerance for certain behaviors from certain types of people. Never had a serious girlfriend either.

Maybe it comes from the fact that coming up...While everyone had their support system and their peer group that they could relate to...I've had no one.

Even going back to grade school to my adult years...I remember when we'd have group/partner projects I would always be alone most of the time. I eventually just started to...hate people. So to speak. I've never really meshed with too many folks...been kind of on the fringe and an outcast...

I had to shake some of the bad habits associated with it cause I realized that coupled with my depression made for a bad combination. I just lost a lot of trust in people from my college years. Which is why I don't fukk with too many heads now.

Having a girl would cure a lot of that depression. But u have to sort other things out first to find one it seems.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i'm just not as talkative as others but definitely not anti social.

 

[lightbearerchef]

Having a girl would cure a lot of that depression. But u have to sort other things out first to find one it seems.

You gotta find yoself & know watchu lookin 4. Aka not toleratin that bullshyt

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

You gotta find yoself & know watchu lookin 4. Aka not toleratin that bullshyt

Yeah Def has to start changing his mind set and how he approaches everyday life. People can see it all over your face if u just a bitter or angry person. Some people hide their depression with smiles, but bitter people are obvious. Gotta kick that habit first and everything changes, I've been there.

 

[Rich Spirit]

i'm just not as talkative as others but definitely not anti social.

This. I have no issues with going out and meeting people. It just takes me a while to open myself up and feel comfortable talking to someone I just met.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Having a girl would cure a lot of that depression. But u have to sort other things out first to find one it seems.

Don't care at this point. Probably never will happen.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

Don't care at this point. Probably never will happen.

Is that what triggered your depression? Not being able to lock down a girl? Serious question.

 

[Audemar]

Being isolated does cause me to miss on a lot of things, but I have accepted this. I'm relatively social when need be, but I'd much rather sit at home alone and than interact with others. At some point, I realized that I can't fit the mold of society; when you can't do that, then you, by default, don't fit in well with the people who do fit that mold. Even worse, when you don't fit that mold, the people who do don't want to interact with you as much. I enjoy my own company more than anything else.

 

[Yehuda]

Anti-social or asocial?



Asocial refers to indifference to or a separation from society. An asocial person is able to socialize well if they choose to, but doesn't do so often simply out of lack of interest. It's common for introverts to be asocial.

Antisocial is asociality to the extreme and is related to mental and personality disorders. An antisocial person lacks empathy or regard for the concerns or safety of others, and may actually be hostile towards society.

I really don't like to engage in conversation with a certain type of people so I guess that makes me asocial

 

[Savior]

Im kinda both ways. Im social but I prefer being alone. At work Im cool with everyone and everyone likes me. In public I say what up to random people on the street and Ive had large circles of friends at points in my life. But I find large social gatherings tiring. Like back in my clubbing days if my boys asked me to go out multiple days in a row Id find some excuse to pass. I like family gatherings but in short doses. My idea of a good time is chilling alone with some weed and video games. Even with my wife I gotta have time apart once in a while to just chill by myself. So whatever u wanna call that. Thats what I am