Do you ever feel like an ugly motherfukker?

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Thread title might read like a joke, but seriously though, do you ever feel like you're so ugly that the opposite sex couldn't possibly be attracted to you? I feel like this sometimes, like why should any female want to be around a nikka that's like me? It's not something I feel all the time, and when I don't, I feel confident in myself, and have no problems talking to girls. When I feel like this however, it's like I can't walk out of the house feeling good about myself. Like if a female smiles at me or tries to talk to me, I feel like she must pity me, and she couldn't possibly be seriously interested in me. It makes me feel like I shouldn't have even bothered to get out of bed because I'm worthless

This might sound like some "Kent" type shyt, but it's nowhere near that bad for me. I'm not a virgin, I've actually had girlfriends, I love black women, I love being a black man, I just have a self-esteem problem that I can't seem to get over. It's like it's a reoccurring thought in the back of my head telling me I'm not good enough. Just want to see if anyone can identify. If no one can, oh well, I'll get over it somehow. If I sound like a p*ssy, idgaf, it's just what's on my mind rn
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Yes, I seriously do :sad: to the point where it makes me feel slightly uncomfortable if someone does compliment me on my looks because not only do I automatically assume they are just trying to be nice by saying "you're very cute/pretty," I don't feel that way for it to be true which gives me great sadness :sad:
 

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OP at least you prefer black women. It's a lot worse being an ugly brown latino who prefers white and east asian girls :mjcry:
 

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I'm a ugly nikka I accept it :manny:

When people complement me I don't believe them at all.

Just today somebody said I was pretty and I went like :leostare: what you trying to pull?

I'm kind of the same way. Whenever a female smiles at me, it catches me off guard. I assume that their being nice or have an ulterior motive. I can't remember the last time a female complimented me on my looks.
 

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I'm kind of the same way. Whenever a female smiles at me, it catches me off guard. I assume that their being nice or have an ulterior motive. I can't remember the last time a female complimented me on my looks.
Those feels. Being an ugly breh means women will only use you in a provider role, they'll never truly lust over you. When you catch them eyeballing you it's cause they think you can support them with resources. I just can't bring myself to be used as a walking atm machine.:hubie:
 

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Yes, I seriously do :sad: to the point where it makes me feel slightly uncomfortable if someone does compliment me on my looks because not only do I automatically assume they are just trying to be nice by saying "you're very cute/pretty," I don't feel that way for it to be true which gives me great sadness :sad:
It's a difference though because as a woman, there will ALWAYS be somebody vying for your attention
 
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