Do you feel guilty sleeping with someone who's in a relationship?

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Usually I avoid those types of situations altogether. But I find myself currently engaged in such an affair.




I'm currently sleeping with an ex girlfriend. She's the only person I've ever engaged in such activities with. My step sister was seeing a guy and we became friends. Not best friends but just hang out shoot the shyt with on ocassion type. Anyway when they broke up he started seeing this new chick and he brought her along. Immediately I was :takedat:. Long story short chick and I eventually fukked and she dumped him for me. That led to a lot of fukkery and fights.


We dated for a couple months then broke up. We remained friends on and off over the years.



She's now engaged to some dude. Rrcently though we started fukking.


I'm kind of :yeshrug: About it because I enjoy her company and never thought too deeply about it.


But after tonight I was :patrice:. She lives like an hour drive from me. Borrowed her fiances brand new car to see me.


I was like lets go out throw me the keys :jawalrus:. As we were driving she kind of laughed and said "he told me I could use his car anytime but nobody else was allowed to drive."


At first I was like :pachaha:. But after a while it just started laying heavy in my mind about how I'd feel roles reversed. She's got a ring on her finger and I'm digging out her back in his car.:leostare:
You should definately feel guilty because essentially you've just created a time b0mb to destroy their family if and when the truth i revealed. Imagine, you love a woman and prepare her for marriage. You have children with her and are into the family life. One day it is revealed that during the engagement she had an affair with some demon who bragged about driving the womans husbands car around the town. This has the power to destroy an entire family.

Sadly, to demonic filth like you, this is a badge of honor. You treasure this moment in time where you act as an agent to come between 2 people and ultimately their children. Who knows what ramifications this will have for her unborn seeds down the road but hey, in your mind, a woman who had a fiance wanted you and that makes you feel good.

This is how you can tell the demonic realm has completely crushed and flattened people when these are the types of activities they engage in to boost their own feelings of self worth.

Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:
 

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Your right. Our culture is partly to blame unfortunately. We value the casual over the long term. Contentment isn't a concern considering there are so many options to choose from on any given day. I think projecting 30 years in the future, there will be more single Middle Aged folks than ever before that have spent most of their adult lives going from person to person to person with no commitment or longevity. Hopefully I will be wrong.

Also, since there is always "someone better" out there, it makes it that much harder for men and women to willingly choose to be content with someone that isn't perfect. :wow:

There is already more single people of every age demographic than ever before. And yep this is the now, me first culture. People want that new car smell. Even in the workforce now the average person only stays at a job for a few years, that new new. Commitment and loyalty and going through the long haul is :camby: now.

A guy can have a girl that has it all together for the first time in his life, but will ruin it for some big ass big boobs thot on instagram, a girl can have a faithful guy for the first time in her life, but a dude with a better car or better job and she'll be screwing him.
 

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There is already more single people of every age demographic than ever before. And yep this is the now, me first culture. People want that new car smell. Even in the workforce now the average person only stays at a job for a few years, that new new. Commitment and loyalty and going through the long haul is :camby: now.

A guy can have a girl that has it all together for the first time in his life, but will ruin it for some big ass big boobs thot on instagram, a girl can have a faithful guy for the first time in her life, but a dude with a better car or better job and she'll be screwing him.
Your right breh :snoop:.
The American fukkin way :sadcam:
 

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You should definately feel guilty because essentially you've just created a time b0mb to destroy their family if and when the truth i revealed. Imagine, you love a woman and prepare her for marriage. You have children with her and are into the family life. One day it is revealed that during the engagement she had an affair with some demon who bragged about driving the womans husbands car around the town. This has the power to destroy an entire family.

Sadly, to demonic filth like you, this is a badge of honor. You treasure this moment in time where you act as an agent to come between 2 people and ultimately their children. Who knows what ramifications this will have for her unborn seeds down the road but hey, in your mind, a woman who had a fiance wanted you and that makes you feel good.

This is how you can tell the demonic realm has completely crushed and flattened people when these are the types of activities they engage in to boost their own feelings of self worth.

Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:

like i said sometimes reaping what you sow doesn't touch you but could touch your kids or lineage them generational curss.

Could have a little son and 25 years from now he kills himself when he finds out his fiance was smashing her ex
 

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Infidelity is a cultural thing, and western people are more apt to commit adultery.


Blame the media.


If this is the precedent we want to surround our children in, then so be it.



But i'm trying to be a better man because i've seen too many fukked up relationships in our lives.



We got to strive to be more responsible adults and not think with our genitalia.


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You should definately feel guilty because essentially you've just created a time b0mb to destroy their family if and when the truth i revealed. Imagine, you love a woman and prepare her for marriage. You have children with her and are into the family life. One day it is revealed that during the engagement she had an affair with some demon who bragged about driving the womans husbands car around the town. This has the power to destroy an entire family.

Sadly, to demonic filth like you, this is a badge of honor. You treasure this moment in time where you act as an agent to come between 2 people and ultimately their children. Who knows what ramifications this will have for her unborn seeds down the road but hey, in your mind, a woman who had a fiance wanted you and that makes you feel good.

This is how you can tell the demonic realm has completely crushed and flattened people when these are the types of activities they engage in to boost their own feelings of self worth.

Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:
:yeshrug: I come from a broken home. Three siblings, all of us different dads. I was born broken and demonic



Barely raised by my dysfunctional fam, here I stand as a dysfunctional man.:wow:
 

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this day and time is fukked up for the relationship. so many options out there for men and women. and it's so damn EASY to get away with it. however, you can't live life wondering if your SO is sucking another dikk or giving another bytch backshots. you can never control another human being. we all have free will. but you can control how you react to it. if you find your SO was cheating, :camby: on the spot. no "i'm sorry" "lets work it out" "we can go to counseling" "i'll change my number and never speak to them again". cause let's be honest, they are not sorry for cheating, they are sorry they got caught. and most likely, they WILL do it again. i love my wife to death. would do anything for her. but i WILL NOT tolerate cheating. now i can never say that i know 100% that she isn't cheating on me right now or hasn't in the past or won't in the future. i have just never caught her. but if i ever do, she will be dead to me. she wouldn't be able to explain anything. i would be completely done with her immediately. let the other dude have that headache full time (yeah right....nikka is gonna run for the hills...:pachaha:)

HOWEVER.....i think it's fukked up to knowingly fukk with someone who has a situation. if you were mislead and found out they had a SO/spouse later on, then that's understandable. but to proceed after they told you they were involved is terrible. you never trust men/women because they aren't loyal and are cheaters, but you encourage the behavior by engaging in the situation with them. its counter productive. it will always be a circle of bullshyt as long as both sides are engaging in the behavior and pointing the fingers at each other, like somehow the other gender is worse. it's exactly the same on both sides. men AND women ain't shyt. but someone has to break the cycle, and no one seems to be willing to be that person......and the cypher keeps moving like a rolling stone.....so we can't get mad about the state of relationships now. just gotta deal with it....
 
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Imma come at this from two different angles

If you're talking to a chick and you end up fukking her (WITHOUT KNOWING THAT SHES IN A RELATIONSHIP) then you don't have much to feel guilty about because at the end of the day shes the one that kept that information from you, in such a situation just know that most people would have fukked

However if you know that shes in a relationship (especially married) and you still go ahead and put work in then you should feel shame, thats fukkboy shyt right there. Its actually disgusting that you nikkas are in here boasting about this :huhldup: . Don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to you :ld:

Yall can carry on exposing yourselves as some thirsty ass nikkas though :sas2: there are more women than there are men, is it that hard to find a lady thats single :sas1:
 

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Of course some are I never said all women, all I'm saying I don't have disdain for women. I've messed with women from all over the world, I've messed with doctors, lawyers, models, to basic retail chicks and chicks who have had nothing going from them at all, different religions, chicks living off trust funds, chicks not with a cent in their name. I've seen women text their bf in front of my face that their out with sarah love you, ive also been that guy whose been played. I've seen both sides of the coin. Putting your faith and full trust in a female in this generation is a joke.

I've texted women while they've been on dates with simps. Simp buys them dinner and gets nothing. Chick is with me an hour later, telling me how lame the simp was. I didn't have to buy them shyt. They buy me shyt.

So those simps are essentially paying me. That's why I've basically stopped taking chicks out on dinner dates. I'm not paying a shytload of money when some other nikka can basically get the same shyt for free with little to no effort.
 
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Usually I avoid those types of situations altogether. But I find myself currently engaged in such an affair.




I'm currently sleeping with an ex girlfriend. She's the only person I've ever engaged in such activities with. My step sister was seeing a guy and we became friends. Not best friends but just hang out shoot the shyt with on ocassion type. Anyway when they broke up he started seeing this new chick and he brought her along. Immediately I was :takedat:. Long story short chick and I eventually fukked and she dumped him for me. That led to a lot of fukkery and fights.


We dated for a couple months then broke up. We remained friends on and off over the years.



She's now engaged to some dude. Rrcently though we started fukking.


I'm kind of :yeshrug: About it because I enjoy her company and never thought too deeply about it.


But after tonight I was :patrice:. She lives like an hour drive from me. Borrowed her fiances brand new car to see me.


I was like lets go out throw me the keys :jawalrus:. As we were driving she kind of laughed and said "he told me I could use his car anytime but nobody else was allowed to drive."


At first I was like :pachaha:. But after a while it just started laying heavy in my mind about how I'd feel roles reversed. She's got a ring on her finger and I'm digging out her back in his car.:leostare:

Breh, that's fukked up. You should be ashamed of yourself.
 

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You should definately feel guilty because essentially you've just created a time b0mb to destroy their family if and when the truth i revealed. Imagine, you love a woman and prepare her for marriage. You have children with her and are into the family life. One day it is revealed that during the engagement she had an affair with some demon who bragged about driving the womans husbands car around the town. This has the power to destroy an entire family.

Sadly, to demonic filth like you, this is a badge of honor. You treasure this moment in time where you act as an agent to come between 2 people and ultimately their children. Who knows what ramifications this will have for her unborn seeds down the road but hey, in your mind, a woman who had a fiance wanted you and that makes you feel good.

This is how you can tell the demonic realm has completely crushed and flattened people when these are the types of activities they engage in to boost their own feelings of self worth.

Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:

Breh, it's so very demonic. Once this demonic behavior is revealed, it can damage a family for generations, breh. We are living in demonic times.
 

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I've texted women while they've been on dates with simps. Simp buys them dinner and gets nothing. Chick is with me an hour later, telling me how lame the simp was. I didn't have to buy them shyt. They buy me shyt.

So those simps are essentially paying me. That's why I've basically stopped taking chicks out on dinner dates. I'm not paying a shytload of money when some other nikka can basically get the same shyt for free with little to no effort.

yup
simp takes out for dinner and a movie, shes smiling nad laughing, simp goes to the wahsroom, non simp texts on some "im coming over later", simp goes back she laughs and giggles, touches his hand, simp gets a hug and maybe a peck on the cheek, she goes home, hour later non simp strolls in and is getting his dikk sucked and smashing, non simp leaves, simp texts that he has a great time she ignores and will reply in the morning I did to.
 
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