Do You Get Butthurt Over Rejection?

[bogey_j]

whether its meeting someone new or you're wife turning you down because she's 'not in the mood'..do you handle rejection well?

that shyt tramples my soul at first but two days later i'm totally like

 

[DreadHead P]

A new chick? Nah, it's on to the next. I will get mad if one of my chicks pulls the not in the mood card cause she just takin up space at the moment, she see what I'm tryin to do

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

The way that I handle rejection is to go into an introspective "troubleshooting" mode. I immediately go back over what happened in the scenario and decipher what I did or said wrong. After figuring out I never make the same mistake again and I'm that much more improved and much more smooth when I get to the next chick. I usually end up with someone way badder anyway, so I almost welcome being rejected because it's a chance for major improvement.

Either way, I'm coming out winning.

 

[Wild self]

The way that I handle rejection is to go into an introspective "troubleshooting" mode. I immediately go back over what happened in the scenario and decipher what I did or said wrong. After figuring out I never make the same mistake again and I'm that much more improved and much more smooth when I get to the next chick. I usually end up with someone way badder anyway, so I almost welcome being rejected because it's a chance for major improvement.

Either way, I'm coming out winning.

I do the same thing too. From body language to how I say my words. That's the only real way to improve.

 

[Blown Moon]

Why get mad? You don't know that ho, her shutting you down could've been the best thing that's ever happened to you.

 

[bogey_j]

The way that I handle rejection is to go into an introspective "troubleshooting" mode. I immediately go back over what happened in the scenario and decipher what I did or said wrong. After figuring out I never make the same mistake again and I'm that much more improved and much more smooth when I get to the next chick. I usually end up with someone way badder anyway, so I almost welcome being rejected because it's a chance for major improvement.

Either way, I'm coming out winning.

don't you just end up overthinking shyt though? I mean you're trying to be all smooth and natural but yet you pick apart every little thing you did wrong..thats robotic swag

 

[1thouwow]

i'm like then two seconds later i'm like
or if i'm drunk i'm like

 

[gameover82]

I used too but there too many chick out here to be tripping over one bytch...but shyt society tell guys "if she don't like you oh well...there plenty more "

 

[BruhMayne]

Why get mad? You don't know that ho, her shutting you down could've been the best thing that's ever happened to you.

You aint lying. I know there's a girl or two I wish I woulda shot me down from the jump

 

[Binary]

We deal with rejection on a daily basis so if someone rejects me, I brush it off. Can't dwell on it. Acknowledge, understand and move on.

 

[its_normal]

If it's a new chick, hell no - she don't mean nothing to me. If it's my ting, then yeah I get pissed off because my woman's job is to please me.

 

[Loose]

Depends how much time i i put into it

 

[Sierra Mist]

rejection? can't relate.

 

[Illuminatos]

Why get mad? You don't know that ho, her shutting you down could've been the best thing that's ever happened to you.

 

[Wild self]

I think the fear of rejection stems from High School, cause word would go around that you were shot down and you couldn't fix your reputation. On top of that, you didn't have wheels of your own yet, so it wasn't like you could go to another place and start over because you trapped.