Do You Get Nervous When You Approach Women?

[BaldingSoHard]

I’ll get nervous if she’s a dime can’t even lie. Everybody has seen a chick so bad that your heart skips a beat. Those are the ones.

But you only live once

I think it's about more than looks tho, breh.

I can chop it up with most dimes no problem.

But my ex (who was probably the first real 100% consensus, record-skipping when she walks into the room "dime" I've ever had) still makes me sweat. Even just a txt from her has me .

 

[SirReginald]

@JudgeJoeGorilla your look has improved, before your afro was all over the place & a hot mess.Now you have shaped it up nicely & neat.

Your eye I sugest u get those fashionable trendy nerd glasses everyone is rocking. It will take away focus from your eye.

Dont forget dressing up & hitting the gym

I wanna see u win breh, I lost my virginity very late, I get where you coming from, I been there too

Alright bro

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I think it's about more than looks tho, breh.

I can chop it up with most dimes no problem.

But my ex (who was probably the first real 100% consensus, record-skipping when she walks into the room "dime" I've ever had) still makes me sweat. Even just a txt from her has me .

You’re right is definitely more than looks. It’s the way they carry themselves. Some women can be above average in looks but carry themselves like they are the shyt. That’s such a turn on to me

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

Talk less. Maintain some mystery. Be chill and mellow. Listen. Talk when she initiates it. Don't over share and over talk. Don't give her too much too early/overwhelm her. It will run her off.

How y'all fedas like being cold spit at?

Aye how you doing?
What's yoname/number?

 

[Karb]

I don't cold approach. I have to get some type of signal or a hint (eye contact etc) before I put myself out there

Sometimes you might be casually talking to a chick and you notice that there's chemistry though.

 

[Shadow King]

Nah. I'm a smooth mf. The key is to approach without intentions and let the shyt flow naturally. If ya'll happen to have chemistry, then you can capitalize on it but having the mindset that "I'm gonna bag this" is the wrong way to approach it.

Being attracted to a woman (the nearly sole reason to approach a strange woman out and about) is having intentions IMO.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yes.

 

[boriquaking]

As long as im dressed right idc.

 

[Malik1time]

I don't let my right hand see my left if ya know what I mean

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[The Burger King]

Funny thing is, if you pull it off right, saying the "wrong" thing can come off as being "real", if hat makes sense.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Yeah women even average women heard everything from dudes since their adolescence. That extra thirstiness wont work especially if her vagina aint calling for u on a high level. U gotta just be personable, chill, and engage her (and let her engage u too) and let shyt flow naturally.

That's the key.When you over thinking that's when you run into issues

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Nope. Been rejected sooo many times in sooo many humiliating ways it's like whatever now. It's literally practice nikka you will have to take ls to your ego before you can get your approach right

There's no excuse for this type of shyt. Some of these bytches are so desperate for attention that they use rudeness as a weapon.

I've seen chicks be unjustifiably rude to dudes trying to approach them and get straight worked by the same dude.

And yes I laughed b/c I felt like they deserved it. I know it's wrong but some people deserve to have their asses handed to em.

 

[PhonZhi]

Yes I get extremely nervous and jittery BUT that's my que to approach.

When I see a chick that catches my eye and its the perfect opportunity to say something, my heart usually starts pounding fast and I get a lil nervous.

When I DON'T get that feeling I usually end up not saying anything.

Usually only a certain type makes me feel like that (thick, fat ass)

Most of the females I've cold approached have fit that mold. Skinny chicks, no matter how pretty just don't make me wanna holla


It be the juicy thick ones that make me go out of my way to speak. I've hit u-turns, went back in stores I just came out of, etc all because a chick gotta fat ass.

If I get that nervous feeling and I still don't approach, those are the ones I regret.

That regret of not saying anything is far worse than being rejected.

 

[Scuti]

Yes I get extremely nervous and jittery BUT that's my que to approach.

When I see a chick that catches my eye and its the perfect opportunity to say something, my heart usually starts pounding fast and I get a lil nervous.

When I DON'T get that feeling I usually end up not saying anything.

Usually only a certain type makes me feel like that (thick, fat ass)

Most of the females I've cold approached have fit that mold. Skinny chicks, no matter how pretty just don't make me wanna holla


It be the juicy thick ones that make me go out of my way to speak. I've hit u-turns, went back in stores I just came out of, etc all because a chick gotta fat ass.

If I get that nervous feeling and I still don't approach, those are the ones I regret.

That regret of not saying anything is far worse than being rejected.

so what happens when you go up to her all jittery & nervous?

 

[The Message]

the nervous, chest tightening, cold feeling of panic you get when you see her feels better than the bitter taste of regret after you dont approach and wonder...."what if?"