I'll be honest, the only chicks I get nervous around are those Black alt chicks 
The thots and etc not at all.
The thots and etc not at all.
Do You Get Nervous When You Approach Women?
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PhonZhi
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She doesn't know about that. Thsts just beforehand when I'm scoping out the situation. (I've smashed hella chicks out of Wal-Mart's, grocery stores,etc) Those are easy places to approach imo.
When I say "hey, excuse me" the nervousness goes away.
I've done it so many times that the actual approach and convo part is a breeze. I'm good at it.
I actually get a rush from it. Its fun.
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Concerning VIolence
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wow a chic actually sharing gems on getting girls
Listen to her virgin brehs. She's right
For me its not really about looks..If i can read her and the vibes she gives off, it makes it way easier to approach confidently....If she's giving me a empty or blank look, thats when shyt get tricky and the unpredictable nature can cause nervousness ....either way I'm good once I get passed the greeting.....the important thing is to have self/situational awareness and know when to cut off the small talk and get to the point....
@JudgeJoeGorilla ok brother, I need you to stop being a square (loosen up and stop judging so much) and check out jack thriller. He got a fukked up eye too but he uses humor strongly. You might have to become an entertainer like him as well breh, these women are very fukking shallow. I remember long ago some breh talked about his struggle with women for having a cocked eye, once he got surgery he was able to actually get dates and etc. Like other brehs said get a good cut and lose the sideburns. Best of luck brother.
I had a similar experience..
Her: I have a three year old daughter, you?
Me: fortunately not
followed by awkward silence, she thinks im trying to be little her.
still came away with them digits.
I'm out of practice right now so yeah I'm pretty nervous. Tried my hand at the mall the other day, cute chocolate mocha bytch.... said some awkward shyt out the gates, she was like "huh 
" and left with my tail between my legs 
" and left with my tail between my legs
I'm out of practice right now so yeah I'm pretty nervous. Tried my hand at the mall the other day, cute chocolate mocha bytch.... said some awkward shyt out the gates, she was like "huh
From what I heard the mall is the WORST place to pick up women.
ChiefQueen
HBIC
Lmaoo
ChiefQueen
HBIC
I'm out of practice right now so yeah I'm pretty nervous. Tried my hand at the mall the other day, cute chocolate mocha bytch.... said some awkward shyt out the gates, she was like "huh
No wonder why you always sound so angry on here. You can't talk to women. Makes sense. And, why she gotta be a bytch? Smh.
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Yes, there is always a trace of nervousness but that subsides when the talking starts anyone who says they don't feel anything is a fukking liar.
ChiefQueen
HBIC
lets be real, 90% of men just stare with this look on they face"shyt she looked at me"
Yep, I can't tell you how many times a dude walked up to me or near me and gave me a death stare like that hoping that i'll make the first move. Nope.
Pump the brakes...first of all....how YOU gonna call ME angry, when it be YOU in every thread throwing mad shade at half the forum
at even the tiniest perceived slight...you try to come at someone. NAH. Sit yo ass down pay attentionI actually have no problem talking to women or anybody in general. I have to put in work to get comfortable again at hollering at beautiful women and women in groups cuz, no, SHOCKINGLY, I do naturally get nervous introducing myself, since, hoes expect you nowadays to be Casanova out the get go and shyt. Ok, I'm not that, but I do like the thrill..when I'm bored and don't have any hoes. You know we should try that..
ChiefQueen
HBIC
Pump the brakes...first of all....how YOU gonna call ME angry, when it be YOU in every thread throwing mad shade at half the forum
I actually have no problem talking to women or anybody in general. I have to put in work to get comfortable again at hollering at beautiful women and women in groups cuz, no, SHOCKINGLY, I do naturally get nervous introducing myself, since, hoes expect you nowadays to be Casanova out the get go and shyt. Ok, I'm not that, but I do like the thrill..when I'm bored and don't have any hoes. You know we should try that..
Lol, I'm a woman, its in my nature to throw a bit of shade here and there. I can't help it. Anyways, quit overthinking it and just start approaching women with casual talk. 'Hi, how are you doing? You're looking beautiful today'...and just go from there. Talk about how nice the weather is, how great she looks, where she's headed and how you'd like to take her to a coffee shop nearby to chat more. I'm sure atleast one or two women will give you there number or Ig (asking for their Ig is a great icebreaker for the younger crowd 35 and below). Honestly, take it from a woman, women lowkey love being approached especially by attractive, charming or charismatic men. Some women might reply with, 'ew, as if', but really its an ego boost. We all know this. I've been approached by a ton of men so far in my life and everytime they'd make me laugh. Despite what ppl say, it doesn't come off as thirsty. Its cute/endearing.