Do you have a friend or acquaintance you don't invite out places because of insecurity?

[Claudex]

It's amazing to me how much I can relate, breh. I spent a lot of time on this earth thinking I was very different than everybody else and maybe for the most part I am but these situations you mentioning sounds exactly like me and my homies. You sure you not from Chicago

Nah, not from the Chi. But I hope sharing my experience helps understand somewhat what your boys been going thru.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

OP hollering at all the hoes at the table

I had a friend back in college who had the same energy you had. He cold approached all the women that was in our circle. He was fearless and didn't really care about being rejected. I respect his boldness. He changed his energy after and started to be on some chill shyt.

Look out for choosing signals so you don't get played. Not every chick is worth approaching. Save your energy for the chicks that match your vibe.

Me personally I'm known as the chill mysterious guy that makes people laugh. That's my lane.

 

[KBtheKey]

I got a Patna that shoot at every 7-8+ that pass by when we out, but i still add him to the link up kuz the shyt be entertaining. Sometimes we feel like it make the whole group look bad, but never bad enough to not still be able to pull some hoes

 

[BBG]

Nah, not from the Chi. But I hope sharing my experience helps understand somewhat what your boys been going thru.

Yeah it really did actually. Both you and @Rawtid opened up my eyes to shyt I was too arrogant to reflect on before, with you coming from the perspective of my boys and her from the perspective of my targets. That's why I love thecoli, we say it's a lot of weird nikkas on here and while that's absolutely true there's also some solid people here to politic with and learn from.


I was out at a block party last night and all I could think about was my nikkas complaints and this thread and I was like NOPE! let me just try to chill. Went home feeling incomplete because I didn't bag anything but it was otherwise a good time. I gotta shake the feeling of "losing" whenever I don't get at women when I'm outside, because honestly I don't even feel in my element unless I'm tryna make every situation sexy

I got a Patna that shoot at every 7-8+ that pass by when we out, but i still add him to the link up kuz the shyt be entertaining. Sometimes we feel like it make the whole group look bad, but never bad enough to not still be able to pull some hoes

Yeah man I noticed I didn't really have this problem in college. We all was young n dumb n the mission every night was to bag a chick, and if you got multiple in the same spot you was the man. I was the king of that shyt and it only got worse when I started throwing my own parties and could bring em to my room while the shyt was still going on. Problem is my college friends wasn't my neighborhood friends so when I got back home I never really adjusted to a normal way of living. Everybody grew up now they tryna be all mature n shyt and Im still walking into every function scanning the menu like



I can see how people who never had this problem could take what I'm saying as though I think the shyt is cute, but nah. I've finally started to wake up and it's definitely time for a change

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

“You be hating and I still hold it down
When you round man the girls never lounge
Man I heard you a hound”

- schoolboy q


It sounds like you’re desperate for cooze everytime you step out and your boys are tired of havin to clean up whatever mess you make from it.

I’m sure you get plenty of p*ssy, but you’re still desperate for p*ssy. After the age of like 25-26 that starts to become a bad look. After awhile you fukk so many hoes till you look up and realize you are the ho. You spend enough time thinkin about nothin but bytches and you eventually become one.

 

[The God Poster]

You sound like a nikka who don't know time or place.
Aint nobody trying to deal with that shyt in their circles. Creates drama in the long run.

This. Sometimes people trying to just chill. Having somebody constantly flirting and getting rejected makes the gathering mad uncomfortable.
Some people just don't know how to act when they get around the opposite sex. OP might be one of those

 

[Slic Ric]

The screenshot all i needed to see for OP

Yea you strictly for cards/watching game w/ homies nights

 

[The Guru]

Most of the people i grew up with..SOME people in my family. But i'm sure there are people who don't invite me some place for the same reason

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

Thread started out on some humble brag backfire, but ended up on some positive shyt. OP even seeing the error in his ways.

The Coli came through on some wholesome shyt.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Stop hollering at the chicks in the circle.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Thread started out on some humble brag backfire, but ended up on some positive shyt. OP even seeing the error in his ways.

The Coli came through on some wholesome shyt.

Always some gems within the fukkery and comedy.

Cats will help each other out on here. Always have.

 

[duncanthetall]

Nobody tryna hang with a nikka who try to run up in literally every chick at all times

 

[Commish]

OP..

Not everyone is meant to be your friend. IMO, people tend to use the word friend loosely..

Any man who would purposely avoid being around you due to their insecurity isn't your friend. At best he is an associate.

Perhaps it may be in your best interest to start trimming the fat and eliminate people who do the things that you described in your original post. Those people are not your homies, especially if they are talking shyt about you behind your back. They are not trustworthy.

I am sure you have friends that are secure in their manhood and confident enough to be in your presence around other women in social settings.

Just remember that life is too short to be dealing with unnecessary bs. Choose your friends wisely and you will be alright.

Respectfully...

 

[Phantum]

Lol you remind me of my boy from college. Freshman year he tried to get with damn near every girl he saw. It was so bad his name was practically dirt by the end of the year lmao. Breh was radioactive. Never stopped hanging around with him though but he had to chill the next year.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

If this has happened to me, no one ever told me about it.