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King Khufu

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Dont get me wrong breh. I have homies i hit up on occasion but theyre for certain situations (e.g. baseball buddies, playa nikkas thats down to get at bytches) but i dont trust these cats with my life or anything nor do i even genuinely like these nikkas lmao i just tolerate em. Plus i talk to different bytches all the time. So im not completely alone. I am an introvert at the end of the day so i enjoy my own company

That's fair. shyt knowing where the limits are that certain cats are for certain established purpose is the cool thing to do.
Real talk But I couldnt hang out with any I dislike. After a while some shyt get known because it can't be tolerated. fukk going through all that, but yeah like you say as long as the like baseball dudes don't become the after night party friends because they on some reckless shyt with not shyt else to do like hell nah couldn't go for that.

I always listen to 2pac songs about how much his friends will ride for him because he'll do the same for them. I wish I had that. I can't remember the last time nikkaz even invited me to a party :martin:

Social isolation is everyday to me. I can't escape it no matter how hard I try. Even casually talking to other people feels empty since I know majority of the connection isn't real

Know the feeling all too well. Some folks really do got it where they got gang or you just like me and all you got is you.
 

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One of my best friends saw the life I used to live and tried to get down. He got fronted some work by my guy, he fukked up and slid it to me, I gave him cash and he skipped town. He did the same in Miami and the Colombians killed him. shyt breaks my heart. He would be alive had we never met, had I not bailed him out. From then I just keep to myself. I can't have people caught up due to my actions or inaction. I used to feel like G Dep but I had too much to lose and didn't snitch on myself.

I recall when he died his family hit me up asking how & what happened cos they knew I was his ride or die and he was mine. Years later, can't forget that call from his mom and the cryin and shyt.
 

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One of my best friends saw the life I used to live and tried to get down. He got fronted some work by my guy, he fukked up and slid it to me, I gave him cash and he skipped town. He did the same in Miami and the Colombians killed him. shyt breaks my heart. He would be alive had we never met, had I not bailed him out. From then I just keep to myself. I can't have people caught up due to my actions or inaction. I used to feel like G Dep but I had too much to lose and didn't snitch on myself.

I recall when he died his family hit me up asking how & what happened cos they knew I was his ride or die and he was mine. Years later, can't forget that call from his mom and the cryin and shyt.
Ppl fail to realize that your friends problems become your problems too. And surrounding yourself with ppl who are doing well for themselves isnt easy neither cuz u gotta do well for yourself to attract those ppl and if yall both doing good then yall really aint gonna have much time for each other so its just best to be comfortable with your self. Not to get religious on nikkas but God and dogs are the bestest friends u can have
 

King Khufu

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Ppl fail to realize that your friends problems become your problems too. And surrounding yourself with ppl who are doing well for themselves isnt easy neither cuz u gotta do well for yourself to attract those ppl and if yall both doing good then yall really aint gonna have much time for each other so its just best to be comfortable with your self. Not to get religious on nikkas but God and dogs are the bestest friends u can have

Lit post. Another gem. Daps!
I said it too.
Boss circles ain't got time to hang around. Its def. My time to get it how I want it as respect to yours because I know we both getting to it. That's the vision and ambition I have for myself. I try to get a team together that's on the same page but its always some flaky sneak shyt going on. Man we all can't fukk up together now lol I'm not for it. Its why I let go of being around anyone I can't handle bullshyt.
In meantime I'm doing bossup speeches in my head to myself right now "Khufu you got the biggest pyramid in kemet nugga now its time to make another in cash." Yessir I can feel it and I can see myself right now Khufu, hopefully my day ones come back around I know the original homies who did have back when they own path
Its cool not even mad at them, however the fukkery I went through its like mfs wasnt even there lol oh man nah shyt not tolerable because of all the phonies that thought they could play me a fool.

From now on I got a new motto
Respect to the real, trust none. Loyalty is Well Earned.
 
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i'm grateful to have a lot (actually less than 10 but even 1 good friend goes a long way) of old friends... that i've had for 15 plus years, closer with them than some siblings. we don't talk every month or even for several months (cuz i be in my own world most of the time) but we always find time for meaningful fellowship, sooner than later. salute to the real friends out here
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Used to think so but, after some time, I've realized that there will come a time when disappointment in some form will manifest.....and it's ok bc it was foreseen.

nobody is perfect. i think its normal to be disappointed in anything whether it be friends, fam, lovers, god. but I think the true test of a relationship is whether its worth it to get over those feelings. i think i've been pissed with a lot of friends but we eventually get back on good terms and from there you just know what buttons to press...what length to keep them at, etc. good luck with your friends.
 
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