what type of stuff do you visualize?is it straight hardcore porn status or do women do it differently?
Girl these dude can do it over 30 times a day. It ain't even close to the same thing.
same thing.
Well there is the answer to his question. Difference is I do it less
no
twice a year vs 3 times an hour
How often do you do it since your all in my business? You're a woman right?
Yes. Both still cause cancer. Look it up.
I'm talking about the topic not smoking. 
It's was just an example.
I'm just saying they are talking about something completely different than what you experience every so often. Being up in someone's business is you asking me about my fantasies. They want more. They want the person inside. Women are unfulfilled when a relationship becomes only about sex. If we think we are a piece of meat to you we lose interest. We don't see intimacy in sex, but we realize you do. Asking women to accept that is as easy as asking a man to accept no sex from his partner.
Good to great point.that's when you know you need an attitude adjustment. most of that running thru your head is fantasy, one that only you are experiencing
You are in for a very very rude awakening and possibly a hard lesson if you have a major problem with this. The only chances that your husband isn't doing this is if he is MADLY in love with you--and I mean MADLY. And even still that kind of love wears off over the years.
I can see where it would be disheartening for a woman to know most men think like this. I will say though that it doesn't make him any less a decent human being, nor does it truly define him. Most of it is out of his control either way. If I were you, I wouldn't be too threatened by it. If you have your own morals and principles, and you properly vet those individuals in your life who wish to spend time with you, it would be much of a problem.This is why when I make comments about the hypersexuality of men and then 5 or 6 posters come in gasping with the "how dare you?" and "that's only the men you know" BS comments I just laugh.
Most women have no idea how men think. The process is so vastly different it's amazing. I'm glad I was made aware. It truly changes your prospective when dealing with men and I use it to my advantage all the time. Flirting goes a very long way with men.
However I will say that it has kinda jaded me. I have no problem seeing the humanity and individuality of people on a case by case basis however I do struggle with seeing men as deeply emotional beings as a whole. And I think this comes from seeing women want a diversity of things from men whether it be money, love, commitment, protection, companionship etc. While men only seem (notice I said seem) to be motivated by sex which from my protective (and I believe many other women feel this way) is shallow and I hate to use this word but a bit lowly.
I honestly think this is why a lot of women quickly gravity towards feminism. They don't see the humanity in men. They see them as the opposition only out to use them sexually, lacking the ability to see women outside of that.
Though I am not a feminist I would be lying if I were to say that I don't understand where they are coming from.
If a dude ruins or potentially ruins a situation over sex like his relationship, job, or living situation I instantly lose respect for him to a high degree (women too).
Again I know it's not right and I struggle with it.
Women were created to serve us.
Basically but nowadays cats just dying to be on the "right" side of stuff. Smfh. Dudes acting like cats let it interfere with doing what needs to be done. Ole special edition ass nikkas lolReally no need to control thoughts....
As long as you keep them at JUST thoughts, fair game.
No offense but FOH. Y'all are different but not that much. Y'all don't dress for men? Ok fam whatever lies you believe. Both genders trying to looks their best for the opposite gender or whoever they trying to attract. Women might not be trying to make men horny but she definitely trying to set bait if she single and just do the still got it if she in a committed relationship. Of course that isn't 100% but that's moreso the norm than what you trying to kick. When women as a whole stop feeling "sexy" in the skimpiest of stuff I'll consider you have a point but until then nah fam.
Who's DNA clown?
there is no difference.
All for you baby.