Do you like your parents?

Do you like your parents?

  • Yes

    Votes: 54 81.8%
  • No

    Votes: 12 18.2%

  • Total voters
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Worl Boss 1Don

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I love my parents. My mom is the biggest cheerleader my dad showed me strength discipline and hard work. Their relationship is one of the main reasons I got married watching how they care for me and my siblings care for eachother when they were sick joking in the kitchen. Salute 🫡 my parents
 

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Okay, I'll bite. Why?

If a person can turn their back on Moms and Pops, how can I trust you not to do the same with me, as a friend, or for a woman, as a lover?

All the people I've met and spoken to in this world who don't get along with their Family, not once has it been about Drug Addiction, Emotional or Physical Abuse, Lack of Quality Time/Love in the Home. It is always about Character Traits, Personality Traits, people just being different from one another.

Not to mention, not all the people I've met are like this right here, but majority of them are horrible to be around.
 

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Yes. I’m blessed to say I have a great relationship with them both. 37 years married I’m proud and happy for them
 

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Understood.. But if you think back to when you were a child, you learned trust from those who protect/provide for you. People take for granted that learning starts the day you're born.

That's a negative on the learning trust part. Especially when both of your "parents" used the legal system to terminate their parental rights. After that, you learn to not trust anyone; especially when you come to the understanding at a very young age that they only provide for you because they're being paid to do so.
 

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That's a negative on the learning trust part. Especially when both of your "parents" used the legal system to terminate their parental rights. After that, you learn to not trust anyone; especially when you come to the understanding at a very young age that they only provide for you because they're being paid to do so.

So you understand exactly what im saying. Who is an outsider to you when your day one's screwed you over? If your parents done that to you, then its nothing to kill another person and roll them up in a "loud pack".
 

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So you understand exactly what im saying. Who is an outsider to you when your day one's screwed you over? If your parents done that to you, then its nothing to kill another person and roll them up in a "loud pack".

Eh. They didn't screw me over; they just acted in their best personal interests like most people do. As for killing another person -- I've been around more than my fair share of that unfortunately due to a job as a contractor I had previously.
 

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Eh. They didn't screw me over; they just acted in their best personal interests like most people do. As for killing another person -- I've been around more than my fair share of that unfortunately due to a job as a contractor I had previously.

Do you believe they sacrificed for you in any way?
 

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Do you believe they sacrificed for you in any way?

Nope. Not at all. Having a child would've put a damper on their career trajectories, so they acted in their best interests and did what was best for them. And seeing as how they didn't have any living parents on either side, as well as no siblings, that ultimately was the conclusion they came to.
 
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