Do You Look At Your Exes Social Media?

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How is it stalkerish to follow someone you know? I don't follow people I don't like so that part would never be an issue. I follow ex's and they follow me. It ain't a big a deal.
I think it depends on why they're your ex. If you're the one that got dumped then it is stalkerish.
 

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I have sometimes

I dated chicks who did and that’s why I didn’t take them serious...they ex dudes was in happy relationships or marriages and it had me thinking what’s wrong with her if that dude married another chick
 

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Maybe for you but some people move on. I have 2 ex's I broke up with and we follow each other. They both have gfs who they have a child with. I doubt they are stalking me. It ain't that serious.
I think if someone broke up with you then it's stalkerish to keep up with their life but that's just me :manny:
 

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I stopped looking when I started to value myself and realized it was a whole world out there littered with millions of wanting females.

I can see her statuses now and not feel shyt other than I recognize this person, but that's about it.
I had blocked her before. admittedly it pained me to see her with her husband, bearing his kids and looking all happy in their pictures.

I unblocked her after a long ass time when her cousin told me she was always asking why he never brings me to parties she's hosting at her place
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When we ended, we went our separate ways and didnt see each other for at least 5 years. Im glad I saw her, made me realize I didnt care anymore.
 

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I think if someone broke up with you then it's stalkerish to keep up with their life but that's just me :manny:

I follow Cardi B too. Am I stalking her? Or are you only allowed to follow the activies of people you don't know? Lol I don't live online. Some people aren't bitter and don't have hang ups. Again, it ain't that serious.
 

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I follow Cardi B too. Am I stalking her? Or are you only allowed to follow the activies of people you don't know? Lol I don't live online. Some people aren't bitter and don't have hang ups. Again, it ain't that serious.
Cardi B is a public figure. Not someone that demoted you and felt they would be happier without being with you :childplease: and make no mistake about it, if someone broke up with you and just wants to be friends then that's the epitome of a demotion.
 

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I got into a relationship last year and it's been only until recently that I blocked my ex on all forms of social media. I used to lurk her pages and get some sort of weird pleasure from it because of the fact that she couldn't replace me. Every comment was about how difficult dating was, or " I'm lonely," or "I've given up on dating." After all that she put me through, it brought me joy to see. Childish I know.

Additionally, she is the social media/current event retweeting junkie. So going to her page was also like reading the ghetto daily news in a way. Media takeout pales in comparison.

I blocked her when I kept running into her in public at the bars I frequent. It came to my realization that I was inviting this negative energy in my life by going to these places and browsing her shyt.

So.. I blocked her and my go to bars out of my life, closing that debauchery chapter of my life.
 

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Cardi B is a public figure. Not someone that demoted you and felt they would be happier without being with you :childplease:

You talking about some heartbreak in your feelings shyt. Again, a lot of people know how to move on. My 2 ex's have new girls and babies. They aren't stalking. It ain't that serious. Seeing an update on folks you use to know isn't that deep.
 

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You talking about some heartbreak in your feelings shyt. Again, a lot of people know how to move on. My 2 ex's have new girls and babies. They aren't stalking. It ain't that serious. Seeing an update on folks you use to know isn't that deep.
If you're in love with someone and y'all in a relationship and they say they no longer want to be with you, I think the average person would be heartbroken and in their feelings. The key to getting over that heartbreak is by distancing yourself from the cause of it.
 

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If you're in love with someone and y'all in a relationship and they say they no longer want to be with you, I think the average person would be heartbroken and in their feelings. The key to getting over that heartbreak is by distancing yourself from the cause of it.

Sure at first for some, then you move on. If you are in a whole new relationship you should be good
 

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Facebook friends with every woman I was ever really in love with.
Even the one that ended pretty badly.

I don't interact with them often, but they're there.
 
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