Women hold a huge amount of power when it comes to sex and relationships. Women are increasingly the selectors these days and can be very fickle. This is why I think paying for sex makes real sense for men in most situations. I also think the reason some feminists want prostitution to be entirely an offense only the 'client' {almost always a man} can commit is because prostitution lowers the value of women ie p*ssy on the market. As the more paying for sex is normalised ,the more it is accepted and then even more men will think it makes sense for them, and then women will hold less power in relationships, and maybe have to sell themselves a bit more because they are competing with other women who for money will sleep with men straight off the bat. Also ,the more women who offer this service ,the price goes down which means it becomes an option for even more men. If women had to compete a bit more, I think it would not only improve things for men in relationships with women, it might actually cut down on marriage breakups, as men won't start looking elsewhere for sex and attention.
All men if they know what is good for them,should support legalised prostitution .There are reasons, world class sports stars, people in the music industry, goodlooking young movie stars pay for sex, and as someone else mentioned no one bats an eyelid when those guys do it.For those guys, there are many ways the arrangement is set up, often a third party arranges the meet, and the movie star doesn't directly pay the woman, someone else does.
So it is also kind of a class issue, as us men of the lower orders are told how wrong it is to pay for sex, that you must be ugly or a loser in some way,it is seen as nasty, the whole industry is a bit nasty and it attracts criminals, even in countries where it is semi legal like the UK, there are people involved in it you would not like to get the wrong side of.
, but the reality is paying for sex is smart. If you think all escorts see are old men, perverts, ugly men, you are extremely naive. For one, huge numbers of the 'clients' of escorts are married,in fact I would wager that is their biggest customer group , which kind of shyts on the rumor that clients of escorts are all ugly losers who cannot get sex,They at least fukked one person....
The only caveat I would give to this diatribe of common sense I have written is,Paying for sex doesn't suit all men. Men who cannot see it as just sex, but catch feelings for the escort, should stay well away. But if you have normal levels of testosterone,not some soft ass simp, understand that this girl is only with you because you paid her, and she will possibly try and fleece you for more cash if she can, as the best escorts are great actors and saleswomen, then it is madness in todays society if you can afford it ,not to pay for sex until you feel ready to settle down.