Do You Place Your Relationships On A Timer???...:jbhmm:

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Been there, how long did it to take you to realize she wasn't going to change and wasn't the one?
I realized early but it was a nice situation, she was beautiful and she was the definition of a good woman. However, I don’t want a good, by the book woman plus little things and comments she made had me looking at her funny.
 

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Not the relationship itself, but the progression or lack thereof. If we haven't gotten anywhere in a year, chances are year 2 and beyond aren't going to be any different.
 

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Not the relationship itself, but the progression or lack thereof. If we haven't gotten anywhere in a year, chances are year 2 and beyond aren't going to be any different.

Yeah...I've never had a relationship go past 2 years... 2 is the magic number...
 

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You had 2 be true 2 urself tho...so u gave her the Truth which is more than what most nikkas would do...
Yeah and the truth is never enough. She wants to me say it’s mistake and that I love her. I can’t give her that. It pains me that I have her going through this right now. That’s why people drag stuff and be evasive. It’s an uncomfortable transition.
 
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Yeah...I've never had a relationship go past 2 years... 2 is the magic number...
I've never been in a relationship. Just the talking/kicking phase and realized shyt was never going to be more than that. Definitely wasted a lot of time doing that.
 

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Yeah and the truth is never enough. She wants to me say it’s mistake and that I love her. I can’t give her her that. It pains me that I have going through this right now. That’s why people drag stuff and be evasive. It’s an uncomfortable transition.

You gotta be direct with her breh...see people think u gotta choose their way or the highway...most couples aren't taught 2 look for win-win resolutions and compromise...hint...and big secret...there is no perfect relationships...all working and happy relationships thrive on compromise at some level...you guys can learn 2 agree 2 disagree respectfully...
 

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I've never been in a relationship. Just the talking/kicking phase and realized shyt was never going to be more than that. Definitely wasted a lot of time doing that.

After 3 dates...if a dude not tryna make u his girl...he's just havin' fun..
 

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You gotta be direct with her breh...see people think u gotta choose their way or the highway...most couples aren't taught 2 look for win-win resolutions and compromise...hint...and big secret...there is no perfect relationships...all working and happy relationships thrive on compromise at some level...you guys can learn 2 agree 2 disagree respectfully...
I’ve kept it real but she’s just venting.
 

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:jbhmm:..timer...nah... but its only so long u can tolerate the red flags..every one over looks them until they bite them in the ass...
 

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I put all relationshipa I have with people or things on a timer, everything must end...
 
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