Do You Place Your Relationships On A Timer???...:jbhmm:

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Kavin The 1 said:
I've had "relationship anxiety" since I was 5...whenever I get with a chic...I'm wonderin' how long it's gonna last...like I'm doin' a stint...wanna know how it's gonna end and when...and be kinda anxious 4 it to end...anybody else like that???...Do you place your relationships on a "timer"???...:jbhmm:
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Been like this since i was in my early 20s. THe minute i meet you im already thinking about the terms of exiting said relationship. I tend to tell chicks i approach every relationship as if it already has an expiration date in my mind
 
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Intruder v3.0 said:
Been like this since i was in my early 20s. THe minute i meet you im already thinking about the terms of exiting said relationship. I tend to tell chicks i approach every relationship as if it already has an expiration date in my mind
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Exactly!!!...
 
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Kavin The 1 said:
Yeah...I know by 3 dates if I want u to be my girl or not...I always been a person that knew what he wanted...I don't have to 2nd guess myself unless I'm giving her "shyt tests" 2 see if she's "real"...but u never can tell!!!...:francis:

Now in that between time we do get down...netflix and chill...but a man pretty much knows...may not show it to you or tell u just yet...but will commit to u at heart and cut off other girls just 2 focus on u because u standout and the chemistry is leading somewhere...a man knows this but a lot of guys are savages and still don't give a fukk!!!...:manny:
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:snoop: That is some shyt young kids do. I would never even consider seriously dating someone until I at a minimum
1. saw how they lived
2. Saw them angry
3. made sure their hygiene was up to par
4. Listen to how they speak about their ex

3 dates isn't enough time to really see who someone is
 
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BlackPearl The Empress said:
:snoop: That is some shyt young kids do. I would never even consider seriously dating someone until I at a minimum
1. saw how they lived
2. Saw them angry
3. made sure their hygiene was up to par
4. Listen to how they speak about their ex

3 dates isn't enough time to really see who someone is
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I thought all that was a given???...:snoop:

Read..."netflix and chill"...only date like once a month...between that...chillin and fukkin'...if things are serious...u cut off potential suitors until they show u otherwise...if they show u otherwise u jump back in the field...3 months top a breh knows...but knows before that...brehs "love" differently!!!...That's why it doesn't make sense 2 u!!!...:ufdup:
 
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Kavin The 1 said:
I thought all that was a given???...:snoop:

Read..."netflix and chill"...only date like once a month...between that...chillin and fukkin'...if things are serious...u cut off potential suitors until they show u otherwise...if they show u otherwise u jump back in the field...3 months top a breh knows...but knows before that...brehs "love" differently!!!...That's why it doesn't make sense 2 u!!!...:ufdup:
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You're back peddling.
 
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IMO the point of a longterm monogamous relationship is to work toward marriage and building, so yes, a relationship has a timer with me.
 
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BlackPearl The Empress said:
:snoop: That is some shyt young kids do. I would never even consider seriously dating someone until I at a minimum
1. saw how they lived
2. Saw them angry
3. made sure their hygiene was up to par
4. Listen to how they speak about their ex

3 dates isn't enough time to really see who someone is
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Voice of reason right here.

Even if the person meets all your superficial requirements, they still on best behavior after 3 dates. 3 months should be the earliest, 3 dates in and he/she still seriously entertaining other people
 
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I live in the moment,enjoy the experience of each relationships ( the first kiss, the first time we fukk, first vacation together etc.). If it ends, I learn what ever lesson I learn from that relationship & move on.

Supreme Leader Reinscarf said:
Wouldn't say timer but I always keep the mentality that always be prepared for the worst.

Anyone can love you today and tomorrow need to talk.

Anyone can be faithful today and tomorrow not be.

Every day there are people commiting their first murder, first robbery, first assaults, first infidelity.
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Very true, was with a chick who was obsessed with me, sprung over me, called me 20 times a day. She begged for the relationship, I just wanted a fukk buddy. 7 months later,I was shocked when I caught her talking to other n1ggaz. Anyone can do dirt.:ehh:
 
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