lol at a black business
you know damn well aint no one going to support that not even our own people
Do you plan on getting married?
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you know damn well aint no one going to support that not even our own people
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
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Idk..
this is an important part of it...the generation of women we have to choose from is immersed in social media, which is nothing but bad for a marriage...constant (and i mean 24/7) validation from any dude willing to send a message online...even if you get a real good woman, faithful and everything...over time those comments on instagram and dm's on twitter and her girlfriends' opinions start to wear on her. now you're one argument away from shyt crumbling...
if you time-travelled a bunch of guys from 1960 to 2015 they probably wouldn't wanna get married either
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
i'm getting married in a few months and my wedding is going to be big but I wouldn't mind having a small wedding.
I know a few couples that recently or are getting married. Most wanted something small, but their families wanted an upsized wedding and helped pay.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
It is true though. Most of those women do not stop because they feel guilty about their past and want to do better. They stop because their prospects are not as high and they want someone to take care of them (the husband they are looking for), and they feel social pressure. Then when someone who grabs their attention comes around they willingly cheat. In addition to that, they have more than likely had several abortions, STD's/STI's, and will eventually show that they have no respect for their husband/father of the child. The worst part is that if you have daughters they will teach your daughter how to be a slut.
Redguard
Hoonding
I have been trying to warn my cousins about this but they won't listen. One of them even married one and I just look at him like
.nope. Studies actually show that the more expensive the wedding, the higher the likelihood of divorce. Why start ur new life off in debt to impress others?!thats true, i should have pointed that out. a small family gathering would be perfectly fine.
thing is, in 2015 women get what they want
coli ladies, if you want to get married, would you want a big wedding?
I'm actually planning a wedding for myself two years down the road. $5000 is the limit. That includes rings, dress, venue, invites, pastor, food, reception, dj, decorations, photographer, cake, his tuxedo, flowers and hair/makeup.
Otherwise, we're gonna elope and say fuk everything else.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
I have been trying to warn my cousins about this but they won't listen. One of them even married one and I just look at him like
What was his rationale?
3/4 divorces are initiated by women, many times for as reasons as small as an ex reappearing, or just not "feeling it anymore"
Nah. They don't feel any pressure. They just move on to a new hustle. Men allow hoes so much leeway despite what comes outta their necks about being hard on hoes, that these women just take em for whatever they are worth. Everybody knows a slew of chicks that are wifed up right now that should never have made it down the aisle.
It is true though. Most of those women do not stop because they feel guilty about their past and want to do better. They stop because their prospects are not as high and they want someone to take care of them (the husband they are looking for), and they feel social pressure. Then when someone who grabs their attention comes around they willingly cheat. In addition to that, they have more than likely had several abortions, STD's/STI's, and will eventually show that they have no respect for their husband/father of the child. The worst part is that if you have daughters they will teach your daughter how to be a slut.
But then men wonder why divorce rates are so high. You walked a street walker down the aisle. That's why. Gotta look for more than t*ts and ass when it comes to marriage material.
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