Do you still hold grudges?

[Hersh]

female shyt

 

[sayyestothis]

Never.

Life is to short and outside of my circle of family ie my wife and kids I really dont care about anyone else nor would let others affect me like that.

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

Hard to be bitter when you're enjoying your life.

 

[mannyrs13]

Sometime it's hard tho

True. It depends. I've had two real close friends who I had a falling out with cuz they got mad and we stopped talking for an extended period. First the guy who was my best friend at the time, stopped talking to him for like a year until he reached out. This was like twelve years ago. We not as close now cuz of life but still cool. Then another friend I had who got mad at me and the first friend and stopped talking to us back in like 2010 or 2011 I believe. He reached out to me like a year and a half later and now he's currently my best friend. Just weird how grudges can change things sometimes. Sometimes you do get mad but not really a reason to.

Like I have an experience from recently that I thought of when I saw this thread. Which hopefully doesn't lead to another long grudge but who knows. My boy got mad at me on Saturday cuz I went over to his house so he can follow me to the gas station since I have a Costco card and it's cheaper. His driveway full so I just back into the edge of his neighbors for a minute to wait on him and not be blocking the street. Later that night I'm riding with him cuz he wanted to hit up the strip club and he starts scolding me on what I did. Talking about the guy had cameras and was gonna tell him something. I'm like it's not a big deal. And if the guy says something, it's not like anything happened so it's not a big deal. He got mad at me and dropped me back at his house. And I haven't really spoken to him since. Don't know how long that'll last but he did go like 7 months without talking to his brother in law after they nearly fought around the holidays. I'm sure I'll see him around or his sister will try to mediate but I'm like whatever right now. Not mad but not caring.

 

[Silkk]

What she do to you

bytch was unappreciative after I got her a job

 

[Tflasha]

every muthafukkin day of my life

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

True. It depends. I've had two real close friends who I had a falling out with cuz they got mad and we stopped talking for an extended period. First the guy who was my best friend at the time, stopped talking to him for like a year until he reached out. This was like twelve years ago. We not as close now cuz of life but still cool. Then another friend I had who got mad at me and the first friend and stopped talking to us back in like 2010 or 2011 I believe. He reached out to me like a year and a half later and now he's currently my best friend. Just weird how grudges can change things sometimes. Sometimes you do get mad but not really a reason to.

Like I have an experience from recently that I thought of when I saw this thread. Which hopefully doesn't lead to another long grudge but who knows. My boy got mad at me on Saturday cuz I went over to his house so he can follow me to the gas station since I have a Costco card and it's cheaper. His driveway full so I just back into the edge of his neighbors for a minute to wait on him and not be blocking the street. Later that night I'm riding with him cuz he wanted to hit up the strip club and he starts scolding me on what I did. Talking about the guy had cameras and was gonna tell him something. I'm like it's not a big deal. And if the guy says something, it's not like anything happened so it's not a big deal. He got mad at me and dropped me back at his house. And I haven't really spoken to him since. Don't know how long that'll last but he did go like 7 months without talking to his brother in law after they nearly fought around the holidays. I'm sure I'll see him around or his sister will try to mediate but I'm like whatever right now. Not mad but not caring.

He'll come around. That's not really serious. Especially if u didnt know

 

[1970s HeRon Flow]

Holding grudges is for bytches , straight female trait

Just learn and move on

 

[ShackZilla89]

Nope, I forgive quick if forgiveness is asked for, if it's something super serious I'll forgive but cut that person off.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Not like sitting around angry but I don't forget

 

[Ol’Otis]

no but it is fukk you now and forever

forgiveness is overrated

 

[phcitywarrior]

Nah. I forgive, forget and move on. I'll be cool with that person, doesn't mean we gonna be buddy, buddy like before but I'll keep things civil

 

[TaxCollector13459]

The older I get, i feel like it's a waste of time and energy to be walking around mad all the time at one person. Evem tho I find myself doing it. I guess it depends on what that person did to me

I got smoke with a nikka from middle school. Beef ain't never over

 

[intra vires]

"No friend ever served me, and no enemy ever wronged me, whom I have not repaid in full."

 

[skeetsinternal]

It's nikkas I wouldn't piss on if they was on fire. It's a bully from my childhood i had to get back