Do you tell women you date how much you make?

[Sonic Boom of the South]

no

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Is it me, or is it always black women in these topics?

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

Salary is way too personal. We gotta be at least engaged for that.

Knowing my occupation should be enough

Correct

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Not direct numbers until it gets more serious. Chick can kind of tell how you living by how you carry yourself, accessories, vocab etc

 

[beenz]

Never had a women ask directly, but they always ask for occupation just to google the salary. Some will ask the company too just to get a closer ballpark figure.

I've never asked either. I can easily get a ballpark based on where they work and what they do. linkedin and glassdoor have hella salary info on there.

 

[Coli Bot]

Whoever you see "modern women..." it's never anything nice and pleasant, always some woman yapping about what men are supposed to be doing for her.

 

[Ahadi]

Is it me, or is it always black women in these topics?

Yes. Always a think-tank discussion about relationships, sex or should he pay the bill or how much of the bills should the man pay, etc.

 

[MajesticLion]

Standard answer: I'm independently poor.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Yes. Always a think-tank discussion about relationships, sex or should he pay the bill or how much of the bills should the man pay, etc.

Breh I'm serious. It's always black women. I don't hear about White women or Hispanics complaining about their husband's salary.

I will say Asian women might be on this wave too in regards to salary.

 

[Mike809]

They might ask me what i do for a living, but I've never had a woman straight asked me how much i make.

 

[Hater Eraser]

 

[MikelArteta]

Nope
I just tell them what I do

although next year my salary will now be public for all to see

 

[NatiboyB]

Nah they can pretty much tell if they see me in my work clothes and cared about that.

 

[SAINT]

Nah. But I would tell them 37k if they asked

 

[MikelArteta]

"I make 70K and need a man making 100K"

I can't recall giving women I date/gfs exact numbers on how much I make. They might have an estimation in their mind but I'm never like, "This is how much I make a year, how much do you make?".

A man making 60K can make it look like 6 figs if he is good with money and you would never know.

note never get with a woman like this, You can have a great job today and lose it tomorrow. Getting with someone based on what they earn is a slippery slope. Things can change just like that. This year I'll be making 30-40k more than I made last year but guess what anything could happen and I could be earning less