Do you think abortion is the better option...

[DatBoiHawk]

Vs raising a fatherless child in some cases? Just a random thought I had after my brother text me this morning in his feelings again about our father not being in his life. We have different mothers and our dad was married to my mom when my brother was born and 4 years later I came along. I have never really asked my parents for details, but obviously my pops cheated on his wife (my mom) and had a baby with another woman and was trying to save his marriage with my mom. I'm not making excuses for my dad, but I can definitely understand why he really wasn't in my brother's life I mean he was a married man trying to save his marriage after getting a jump off pregnant. Anyways my brother is 31 years old and this shyt is STILL eating him up inside, and his life has basically been a wreck because he feels like he has no one, but myself and our other siblings.

I also have a female friend who had a baby by some nikka out of wedlock and he's all on Facebook saying the kid aint his and shyt and I just be thinking like damn that kid is probably going to have issues because his dad doesn't want him and his mom thinks she can do it all by herself. I just don't see why some mothers would want to hurt the father by keeping the baby when the baby is the one that will go through their whole lives hurting, and feeling not good enough/not wanted by the other parent. I had both my parents so I really can't say I understand my brother's feelings but I can definitely tell it really hurts him to the core that my pops isn't really close with him. What you guys think? is aborting the baby in some instances actually helping the baby by not having to be here and being fukked up their whole lives?

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

abort! abort! ctl alt delete!

 

[Luck]

This isn't a simple yes or no answer question

Depends on what type person and how strong of a person the single parent is.

Most "fatherless" kids a fukked because their mother isn't shyt either and that's a messed up combination but there are some amazing black women ( and to a lesser extent men ) that are doing a hell of a job raising outstanding young men and women

 

[DatBoiHawk]

This isn't a simple yes or no answer question

Depends on what type person and how strong of a person the single parent is.

Most "fatherless" kids a fukked because their mother isn't shyt either and that's a messed up combination but there are some amazing black women ( and to a lesser extent men ) that are doing a hell of a job raising outstanding young men and women

 

[010101]

if ya daddy ain't shyt what's the use of having him around in the first place¿*

 

[miranda]

yes

 

[SirReginald]

Oh lord

 

[sanityovar8ted]

This isn't a simple yes or no answer question

Depends on what type person and how strong of a person the single parent is.

Most "fatherless" kids a fukked because their mother isn't shyt either and that's a messed up combination but there are some amazing black women ( and to a lesser extent men ) that are doing a hell of a job raising outstanding young men and women

i agree with this entire post, u took the words right out of my mouth

 

[Elle Driver]

You grew up having both parents, so you don't really know what your brother is going through which is why you're quick to think up excuses like abortion and the fact that your father had a baby he didn't want with a jump off. He's an adult, too bad and step the fukk up. That shyt is disgusting to take out on your own child. Nobody forced his hand. And your brother needs therapy/counseling to rid himself of this unresolved trauma.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

You grew up having both parents, so you don't really know what your brother is going through which is why you're quick to think up excuses like abortion and the fact that your father had a baby he didn't want with a jump off. He's an adult, too bad and step the fukk up. That shyt is disgusting to take out on your own child. Nobody forced his hand. And your brother needs therapy/counseling to rid himself of this unresolved trauma.

 

[Elle Driver]

 

[ba'al]

Nah too many black babies dying from abortions. Just strap up. (But condoms can bust Demetrius) Most babies aren't born from condoms busting. And your chances are better with the rubber on.