Do You Think Men & Women Can Ever Really Be Friends?

bogey_j

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can a friendship between a man & women ever remain platonic without one person eventually catching feelings for the other? :jbhmm:

the thing with female friends is once they find boyfriends/husbands, contact will drop off until eventually they fall off the map completely :francis: happened to all the female friends I used to know

guys are generally uncomfortable with their wives/girlfriends having male friends so female friends kinda fade away if a deeper intimate relationship never develops between you two
 

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The way I see it atm is, it only can happen if they're attracted to eachother, and if they're attracted to eachother while associating, they're already quasi-courting since they will feel comfortable enough to reveal normally private information in the form of emotional dependance as well as being comfortable enough to share physical contact.
 

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Anything is possible, but in my situations, someone almost always wanted more.

Actually, I have one true female friend because she's married and gives me a lot of good advice. She's a coworker who I hit on and she told me she was married right away. She doesn't say crazy shyt that most females say and is very level-headed.

I will say it is possible, but rare, and even in that one case I mentioned, if she ever got divorced I would be down, but I don't actively hit on her. She's honestly a good friend.
 

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:mjlol:at being friends with a woman. We are either going to be love interests or not communicate at all. I'd dikk down every female "friend" in my phone if they called me late night.

We aren't meant to be friends. We're meant to mate. I have almost nothing in common with women
 

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Yeah but only if you don't find them attractive ( doesn't mean you won't fukk depending on state of mind and place) but yeah it can happen.
 

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can a friendship between a man & women ever remain platonic without one person eventually catching feelings for the other? :jbhmm:

the thing with female friends is once they find boyfriends/husbands, contact will drop off until eventually they fall off the map completely :francis: happened to all the female friends I used to know

guys are generally uncomfortable with their wives/girlfriends having male friends so female friends kinda fade away if a deeper intimate relationship never develops between you two
You answered your own question really.

Unless y'all aren't attracted to each other, or the dude is gay, the answer is no. Women know this and that's why they're a ghost to male 'friends' once they're in a relationship.
 
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:mjlol:at being friends with a woman. We are either going to be love interests or not communicate at all. I'd dikk down every female "friend" in my phone if they called me late night.

We aren't meant to be friends. We're meant to mate. I have almost nothing in common with women
This isn't true for all men. Please don't put them all into one box
 
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