Do you think the internet is to blame for average dudes having extremely high standards?

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Hometown of Cherokee at Law
Nice face
Nice shape
Not a hoe/former hoe
Has no qualms about cooking
Enjoys sex with me
Doesn't need to go clubbing with her hoe ass friends every weekend
Not controlling

Not too high but in 2016 I won't find ALL those qualities so maybe the combination is unrealistic :manny:

But most average dudes don't expect a Draya clone with Claire Huxtable's personality :heh:
 

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some people try to hit home runs when they're batting a .180 average. everyone in general is incredibly unrealistic with standards.
 

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Internet set up all kinds of unrealistic goals for this generation.

But let's keep it 100.

There are more male virgins on the Internet complaining about not fukking girls out of their league than Women complaining about not having Tupac in a business suit.
 

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Average dudes don't have extremely high standards, it's just below average women have extremely high standards and that's due to television.

DF, its the other way around by far.
Men might follow these hoz on social media and lust after them, but they not on dating sites or on FB requiring females to IG thot like measurements, long natural hair, and a face like a goddess without makeup.
Most nikkas aint walking around real life looking for females who look like the IG hoz.
WOMEN however, don't give a normal dude the time of day after seeing some FB famous nikka flash some money online and pose by a rented BMW. They literally dedicate their life to meeting a nikka like that.

Yea, until they get older (30 and up), then they come back down to reality. This woman I work with comes to mind. She dates a dude in my office. She's a certified milf. Slim white chick with the juiciest booty I've ever seen on a white broad. Ass just jiggling in her work pants :noah: Looks like a librarian. Anyhow her dude is some quiet chubby middle aged bald white dude who looks like he plays world of warcraft every night. Likes to draw cartoons and watch anime. I chuckle sometimes watching them because I know if she wasn't 40 years old, he wouldn't have a chance with her. The girls that look like her that are in their 20s......nah.....no chance at all. So you gotta question is this guy winning? He has an older chick who's still fly for her age and kept her body right but, you gotta live with the fact that you had to wait for her to get older and desperate to date you. When she was in her prime you would've never been her first choice.
 
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Damn you guys are defeatist. A woman is judged on her beauty, not a man. What matters above all is game and whether a man can provide for a woman.

The average dude with his own money, place, and decent game can bag any one of these IG model chicks.

Shyt you act like a woman is on a different class all because she has some looks on her. A dime is no different than any other woman.
 
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I honestly don't think its only men that have unrealistic standards. I have always said men learn what their level is extremely early. A lot of guys desire sex early and naturally, it will be from women out of his league BUT no matter how much a guy desires a woman out of his league, if he is not on that level or have money or crazy game, it will most likely not happen. While on the other hand, average women have sex with men out of their league all the time, especially women in their 20's. It is not that men are dogs, it just they usually deal with men with tons of options and reality is these men will not make them priority.

Women don't ever truly learn what their value is on the dating market until they seek commitment from men when they are older. There is just not enough 6 feet plus, well paid male etc. etc. to go around. Women are as superficial as men if not more. Go on dating sites, these women be on there forever. It is not because they can't find a man, they are looking for perfection than age hits and younger woman now hold more value so these same women now are forced to stop being superficial. We live in a social media age, where a lot of people have that "look at me" syndrome so both men and women have unrealistic standards looks wise.

I personally think mines are fair. I am not expecting a bad ass chick. Be average, fit and smart and we good.
 

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The whole idea of high standards to me comes from a place of making an excuse as to why you're single.

"I'm single because there is no woman out there good enough for me"

Internet nikkas create these unrealistic and completely false ideas of women and use that as the narrative as to why they're single.

shyt I've seen ppl on the Coli say they only like black women, they don't like black women with weaves, and black women with natural hair only like white guys. :heh:

Like nikka just give up if that's the case :heh:
 

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The whole idea of high standards to me comes from a place of making an excuse as to why you're single.

"I'm single because there is no woman out there good enough for me"

Internet nikkas create these unrealistic and completely false ideas of women and use that as the narrative as to why they're single.

shyt I've seen ppl on the Coli say they only like black women, they don't like black women with weaves, and black women with natural hair only like white guys. :heh:

Like nikka just give up if that's the case :heh:
I've seen women on the Coli being nitpicky about the man they want also..

:manny:

Which group has more unrealistic standards? Who knows..

But be for real, outside of The Coli, there's other forums filled with women who won't settle for any little nitpicking reason neither....
 

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Which group has more unrealistic standards? Who knows..

But be for real, outside of The Coli, there's other forums filled with women who won't settle for any little nitpicking reason neither....
:what:You be for real. Outside of the Coli there are WAY MORE forums devoted to Men complaining about being virgins because all women are whores.
 
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