Do you think the internet is to blame for average dudes having extremely high standards?

[Art Barr]

Post high school the only guys I see with "high standards" are the ones who can afford to have them. Since men do the approaching/asking out they find out very early where they stand on the dating totem pole and the type of girls who will go for them.

In general, the vast majority of of women who will turn you down over the course of your lifetime are in your league. And I'm not just talking about looks, it includes education/socioeconomic status etc. Just because you are both 7's who went to the same school and make the same money doesn't mean she is gonna want you.

that is an inexperienced breh, who has not branched out and learned you not getting laid in your age bracket as a young guy.
like never are you getting with a chick your age, as the rule.
most guys do not know this and it should be learned from experience with females.
a female your exact age has no idea of your general value.
just like when you were younger and that guy fukked up the great young girl at a young age.
all because they were not able to rationalize and perceive value, correctly.
that is the fairy tale high school everyone in the hall knows you kick it romance fantasy comedy.
that typically the relationship girl and relationship guy in your class setup.
you, know the girl and guy who always had a gf/bf.
when, y'all was young as fukk and not really into girls other than pulling their hair and ignoring them.

the real is,...the females you get to mate with, may be ten years older than you, on average.
personally i think most guys their first consistent female mate is considerably older than said guy.

next, i hope guys learn when they should shift down in age.
or when they should shift up and it is times during your life.
you will do both or have them going on at the same time.
i think you only get maybe one or two hookups with females your exact age.
like once for a romance in high school and probably later as a mid twenty year something adult.
other than that, i would think as a guy you have windows of varying ages brackets.
where you date up and down the age range of available women.

like i have smashed bad ones in all the age and weight classes to young virgins, to fiftythree plus, of age.



art barr

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

You know exactly what you meant.

Don't put words in my mouth

 

[Art Barr]

There's a whole lot of on the internet too.

Dudes on here constantly talk about how they only fukk 8s or above, when in fact they've definitely settled for less on many occassions

part of the problem with these nikkaz is they never seen what a real female generally looks like.
that would have slept with them before vibrant thing.
so, they think every female is supposed to be a fitness model or a bathing top bunny.
when, they should learn to get notches with what a real woman looks like.
then, get some confidence and experience and build a pipeline that eliminates one-sies.
so, when they encounter this fitness ig type of female.
they make a move and only see that female and her flaws as regular.


art barr

*if a female, don't want me.
she must be gay and stoopid, as fukk..

 

[Quiet Magician]

i was homeless with a beauty queen who was barrack obama's white house intern, nurse filled roster and another woman.
who i was truthful about said roster and told her i did not have enough time to fukk her as well as my roster.
she, gave me my house i stayed in.
well after a year after i told her and never had contact with her between then.
she found me and gave me the house.

women know what it is,....
you dudes to busy trying to be lame outdated veitnam vet macks like clifton powell, in dead presidents.
females don't want paper from the guy who knows not to be the whale and be taken.

you can lay up with them every night.
when, you not trying to be a fake ass mack, or a simp, or a try hard, or any of the bullshyt.


art barr

A hot attractive women gave you a house? What are you talking about? Why would she give you a house nikka?

 

[Art Barr]

A hot attractive women gave you a house? What are you talking about? Why would she give you a house nikka?

it is well documented on here, breh.
yes, a woman gave me her house.
just for telling the truth and fukkin her.

art barr

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Yup, about what I expected......

Que será será

 

[Art Barr]

That's 1 example of many.
So imma ask you again.

You don't think the Internet is making these virgin males have unrealistic standards when it comes to women ?

they are virgin males cause they are on the fukk'n internet.
you not getting no p*ssy off the internet consistently since 2007.
which is a decade removed.
those dudes need to go old school and go out and purposefully hunt.

like sheit,...out here in this wack ass country bullshyt.
i have to purposefully hunt and it is a hundred mile roadtrip to do it.
so, every man has to hunt.

dem goofies need to get up and out in the world.
you not pulling nuffin on the net, as a rule.
plus, you need to actually tell yourself the net is not a viable option for females.

the net is dead like old paper ads for singles.

art barr

 

[Quiet Magician]

it is well documented on here, breh.
yes, a woman gave me her house.
just for telling the truth and fukkin her.

art barr

I have gotten stuff for fukking women older than me but never a house.

Bless the coli with your game because that shyt ain't ordinary.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I'm married to a white woman as well.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Oh, Were you all talking about something else? I apologize if I was wrong.

 

[Art Barr]

I have gotten stuff for fukking women older than me but never a house.

Bless the coli with your game because that shyt ain't ordinary.

i don't talk on the forum indepthly in public.
all because we have females trying to use the forum to raid the black male braintrust.
when, they don't break kayfabe. so , i don't give them help to help them crack us cause they don't give us help to help them crack them.

you would have to hit me via pm for indepth questions.
i listed the basics earlier in this thread, tho.

the basics.....

learn marriage/divorce law
learn the labels of committal/non-committal women and how to label and crack the labels.

art barr

 

[Larry Lambo]

part of the problem with these nikkaz is they never seen what a real female generally looks like.
that would have slept with them before vibrant thing.
so, they think every female is supposed to be a fitness model or a bathing top bunny.
when, they should learn to get notches with what a real woman looks like.
then, get some confidence and experience and build a pipeline that eliminates one-sies.
so, when they encounter this fitness ig type of female.
they make a move and only see that female and her flaws as regular.


art barr

*if a female, don't want me.
she must be gay and stoopid, as fukk..

There's a wide range of what a "real woman" looks like. Dudes talk about the medium sized cute girl with an average body, as being 100% cooperative and an easy lay. But for the average guy, that girl is not interested in hooking up with him, and tend to only deal with them when they want a boyfriend. The reality is that in youth, a lot of those girls are hooking up with guys well above their level, and then when they get older they lower the physical requirments but expect a guy to be pursuing a serious relationship (with intentions of marriage).

I don't know of any guys personally putting up serious numbers with women of similar attractiveness, unless they are masking their intentions. They are either have girlfriends at their level or are running through jumpoffs that are beneath them. So I'm not sure of how to get these notches, unless you are willing to go beneath what should be your match.

Also, let's not act the only thing you have to do to pull an woman of IG thot level attractiveness is to see her as regular. Confidence and experience with women is great, but if you don't have something to back that up and the qualities she is looking for, you aren't gonna pull. From my perspective, them type chicks throw so much opposition upfront, that if you treated them like regular, there'd be one interaction, and then they'd be dismissed after showing attitiude.

 

[Art Barr]

There's a wide range of what a "real woman" looks like. Dudes talk about the medium sized cute girl with an average body, as being 100% cooperative and an easy lay. But for the average guy, that girl is not interested in hooking up with him, and tend to only deal with them when they want a boyfriend. The reality is that in youth, a lot of those girls are hooking up with guys well above their level, and then when they get older they lower the physical requirments but expect a guy to be pursuing a serious relationship (with intentions of marriage).

I don't know of any guys personally putting up serious numbers with women of similar attractiveness, unless they are masking their intentions. They are either have girlfriends at their level or are running through jumpoffs that are beneath them. So I'm not sure of how to get these notches, unless you are willing to go beneath what should be your match.

Also, let's not act the only thing you have to do to pull an woman of IG thot level attractiveness is to see her as regular. Confidence and experience with women is great, but if you don't have something to back that up and the qualities she is looking for, you aren't gonna pull. From my perspective, them type chicks throw so much opposition upfront, that if you treated them like regular, there'd be one interaction, and then they'd be dismissed after showing attitiude.

the first problem is guys on here, and on the internet.
have not endured enough rejection.
you have to endure the rejection.
you have to be shot down, and then when you parachute away.
you have to tell yourself,..was there something on my jet that i needed to make me a varitech.
what do i need on my varitech to make put me on vermillion squadron.
what do i need to add to my varitech to make me skull squadron.
what do i need to add to my varitech to make me max sterling, with it.

you have to go and get rejected,...
get rejected every type of way,..learn what way you have been rejected and know what type of women reject in what way.
learn what type of woman has a pleasant hello.
who is a grumpy ass grouch and how to smash a grumpy fiyoine chick and when to move around.
how to only react and pursue women with incredible charismatic greetings.
learn your type,...the most important.

see, as a black guy i think women are way more dynamic for us.
since everything is so racial.
racism has created more than one type of black woman who is valuable to us.
so, we have to work on being and creating value with more than one type.
i think the kissless virgin are men of other races.
so, i try to read between the verbiage and see if it is a black guy or not.
i usually don't feel sorry for other races of guys.
all because they have their culture intact and their culture will yield them a husband/wife dynamic eventually.

usually when i read all these kissless virgin things. i hope they are not black guys.
when, i think they are black.
i just hope they are plagued and complaining, from residing in areas.
where the dating pool is not rich enough to satiate their activity.
so, i just hope they get a chance to move and eventually things will fall into place for them.



art barr

truth:

most guys with a roster.
the females in the roster are not on the guy's league.
so, guys wit a roster do date down.

in my life, i felt like i definitely could do better than a beauty queen and the roster of nurses and i had a roster because i had to build a she bear when it came to dating.
as i could not find an ideal committal female mate who hit all my bullet points.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Can't tell these hoes nothing

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Oh, Were you all talking about something else? I apologize if I was wrong.

No, I was talking about that, which is the problem.