Do you think the side chick epidemic is getting outta hand?

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you're entitled to whatever you can get.

lots of men allow themselves to be emasculated and so the few remaining men are percieved as more valuable. so more women choose them, they can get a side easy and make her accept her position. Now before you say "well if men can do it, why can't women!!??" trust me, don't even try it. You're not built for this.

Are you saying that she's not built for this, or that women are not built for this?
I've heard many stories about women having "side relationships" , and most of them never got caught.
 

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Are you saying that she's not built for this, or that women are not built for this?
I've heard many stories about women having "side relationships" , and most of them never got caught.
i'm saying she's not built for this. I'm also saying most women aren't built for this. Whether they got caught or not is irrelevant. what's important is if they were happy. chances are they weren't (although i don't know them personally).
 

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Cant even turn on the radio w/o hearing side chick. main chick. turn on the TV. Main chick. side chick. I think men actually feel entitled to multiple women these days...just now theyre vocal about it. smh

we lost as a society sharing men like theyre some prize. ladies we gotta #dobetter

There is too much promiscuity. I agree. Most successful societies are conservative.
 

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I tell broads all the time that they will never know their
man like their hoe does.
we can be mentally/emotionally naked with the side smash.
they know when to shut the fukk up/roll some weed
and know the value/appreciation of suckin a dikk
for no damn reason other than it's "just sitting there doing nothing"
if anything chicks need to study hoes and learn.
bytch you fat lippin cause a nikka "at home" playing
XBOX....be happy a nikka at home!!!
fix some wings,crack that nikka a cold one
and the second he put that controler down he's
gonna go well out of his way to make you happy
because youve showed him that his happiness is important.
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Cant even turn on the radio w/o hearing side chick. main chick. turn on the TV. Main chick. side chick. I think men actually feel entitled to multiple women these days...just now theyre vocal about it. smh

we lost as a society sharing men like theyre some prize. ladies we gotta #dobetter
Y'all been Sharin, it's just talked about in the "IDGAF era"
 

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I think the society we live in gives side chicks way more props than it should. I was actually thinking about this yesterday morning due to a local radio show that was interviewing some chick who was cool with being a side chick. One of the hosts seemed to give the woman props simply based on the fact that this side piece made comments about "being comfortable with her choice" and "being more independent than most girlfriends/wives because she paid for her own things in spite of the man." Also, the side piece made comments that she enjoyed the dynamic because its fun and exciting.

Well, of course being a side chick is fun and exciting....a side chick only has to deal with "dating" portion of the man. He comes to her when he wants to have sex and/or go out on a date. No bills have to be paid, no house maintained, no children to raise and no family to deal with. Before this age we live in, a woman like this would've been blasted for such selfish ambitions and negligence. But now she almost applauded....that's where the problem lies.

The whole side chick thing is not new and will continue because men want it and there are women who are fine playing the role. However, I feel that whenever a side chick becomes an almost "ok" thing in society, that we are headed for some real family problems. And when I say side chick, I delineate that from a mistress and definitely from a second wife(polygamy).

The reality is, this is not just because men like having multiple women. This has always been the case. I would say that women have actually played a much larger role in the proliferation and exploitation of the side chick thing.

Women are promoting themselves based on being the side chick of some famous/semi-famous dude
Women are on IG posting pictures of themselves proudly proclaiming to be pregnant by some dude who is married/engaged/in a relationship
Women are selling their stories to gossip sites and media publications for money and their 1 minute of Mediafakeout fame
Women are openly proclaiming an affinity for being the side chick because its "easier" than a real relationship
Women are and have always dealt with men who they know are with another woman


So, let's not do the "blame the men for female iniquity" game....its old and intellectually dishonest.

Peace

Nah, it is hypergamy at its highest order.
 

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Cant even turn on the radio w/o hearing side chick. main chick. turn on the TV. Main chick. side chick. I think men actually feel entitled to multiple women these days...just now theyre vocal about it. smh

we lost as a society sharing men like theyre some prize. ladies we gotta #dobetter

Been hearing that side chick anthem and realized you was one :mjlol:
 
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choose better men. go for the actual nice, good guy instead of the douches. Shy guys can be transformed and would like to
 

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Women holding the p*ssy over mens heads and being surprised when he keeps it pushing :pachaha:

my brehs need to stop putting that p*ssy on a pedestal though and focus on improving themselves:salute:
 

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I will be the only woman in my husband's life. I'm not a violent person but if I find out, that there's a side bytch somewhere. Someone's D is going to fall off tonight.

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