I'm not saying this is the only way to find happiness, but I think being lonely in my 40s or 50s would be
My friends and fam just celebrating Xmas with their kids and I'm just tagging along as the "Single uncle"
But hey, I'm picky, so maybe that's why I can't settle down
And yeah, I got to focus on myself....all I care about now is the gym and losing weight to be honest
my new job sucks bc the hours and commute do not allow me to devote as much time to gym and a part time job