Do you think you'll ever find "the one"? If not, would you be depressed?

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I don't even give a fukk, the chick i'm with now could be the one cuz shorty fits into my personality really well, but if it don't work out I'm gonna keep focusing on my life and bettering myself. I used to trip heavy on my relationships, wondering if the girl was right for me, now I just hit it and if shorty is cool then she's cool, if not we K.I.M. fukk I look like tryna find happiness from a chick when there are so many other things in life that can bring joy? :ahh:
 
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This isn't such thing as the 'one' you just need to find someone you enjoy spending time with basically. There are millions of women that can make you equally happy, find one of them and be happy with it.
 

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there is no one there are many you find one of the many and you settle for that
 

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I'm not saying this is the only way to find happiness, but I think being lonely in my 40s or 50s would be :sadbron:

My friends and fam just celebrating Xmas with their kids and I'm just tagging along as the "Single uncle" :gag:

But hey, I'm picky, so maybe that's why I can't settle down :manny:

And yeah, I got to focus on myself....all I care about now is the gym and losing weight to be honest

my new job sucks bc the hours and commute do not allow me to devote as much time to gym and a part time job
 

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I think I will find the one. I'm not looking for wife material right now because I'm not husband material(right now).
 

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nikka aint you like 23?:why:


Thats the problem with your life kid. You try too hard. Whether its work, social, or personal.


Calm the fukk down and enjoy the moments breh. If you depressed already now. You might as well just kill yourself. Cause life only gets harder and more stressfull when you get older. Regardless if you have "the one" or not
 
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