Do You Use People?

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Women of the coli, do you connect with men for drinks or dinner? Men do you use women? For what?
 

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Most men should be saying yes since I see them always talking about just tryna smash women but not date them.
Good point, but I asked you if you use people. There's no need to attack those who's lifestyle's you disagree with
 

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Most men should be saying yes since I see them always talking about just tryna smash women but not date them.
unless they tell them they want to have a real relationship that's not using someone
it's a consensual act and someone not wanting to continue said act any further
 

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Good point, but I asked you if you use people. There's no need to attack those who's lifestyle's you disagree with

here we go....
this shyt dont end :dead:

unless they tell them they want to have a real relationship that's not using someone
it's a consensual act and someone not wanting to continue said act any further
if you are telling a woman you are interested in getting to know them but yet you're just looking for sex you are using them.
If you are only going on a date with them to get sex than you're using them.
If you are lying about caring about someone to get sex and continue to get sex you are using them.
Etc.


Unless you straight out tell them that you just want sex than you are using them and this is what I see a lot. Don't like what I got to say? Then that's your conscious telling you, you ain't shyt and your're doing what I'm talking about.
 

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if you are telling a woman you are interested in getting to know them but yet you're just looking for sex you are using them.
If you are only going on a date with them to get sex than you're using them.
If you are lying about caring about someone to get sex and continue to get sex you are using them.
Etc.


Unless you straight out tell them that you just want sex than you are using them and this is what I see a lot. Don't like what I got to say? Then that's your conscious telling you, you ain't shyt and your're doing what I'm talking about.
flat out telling a woman you just met you just want to fukk them isn't acceptable to 90% of the female population so if anyone is using anyone it's women using men for their time/money without the promise of what the man wants, the only time the woman has been used is if she gave up sex without gaining anything herself via a date/the man's time

women value a man's time and then sex. men value sex and then move to wanting a woman's time. far more women get men's time then men get women's sex.
 
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