Do you usually have marriage in mind when you decide to date someone?
- Thread starter SamuraiFlamenco
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
She has to at least appear wifeable for me to give up my precious time for her.
SamuraiFlamenco
Banned
So you would wife up a chick you smashed on the first date?
Most dudes say they would, but putting out like that makes guys respect her less, even though we want to smash. We know that if she puts out like that, she's probably a ho
. You know about how good of a housewife a ho makes.Of course, some of these hoes play the "I'll make him wait" game to seem less slutty than they are. Of course, one only has to look at her friends to determine what she's really about
I mean, I will, go on dates, with my, mail order bride
I usually don't look forward into marriage like that, but I do like to date women that have potential. I don't like being associated/in contact with people that ain't shyt.
Anytime I go into a longterm relationship I go into it thinking this might be the last relationship I have. Why waste your time w a relationship if you don't think thats the one you can see yourself marrying. I was better off fukking the 3-5 women before I got with her.
Shameonyou
All Star
this is how I see it...
If im Dating? Ill choose women I can see myself marrying...but before I date her, she has to pass the test...the mentality test.
Is she reasonable? Does she act entitled? (bushes) Is she loyal? Is she sexy without trying? Does she have goals? This is a big one for me right here: DO (Mostly other women) OTHER PEOPLE RESPECT HER AND ADMIRE HER GENUINELY AS A PERSON (i.e. Michelle Obama)? Does she have maternal instincts with kids? Is she a visionary individual? Does she value becoming a wife?
these are women I choose to date, so technically yea if marriage comes up I wouldnt turn it down, but she has to pass the test first, and usually alot of women slip up at one of those scenarios..which is what fukks up the momentum
If i just want sex? I dont date at all..im just up front with women when i want p*ssy, I just tell em on some grown shyt (after a little flirtation) hey, why dont we go to my place....if she not down, bushes, if she is, smash and dash. However I know what type of woman to approach in that context...
part of dealing with women is knowing what types to approach...if it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck....u know the rest
If im Dating? Ill choose women I can see myself marrying...but before I date her, she has to pass the test...the mentality test.
Is she reasonable? Does she act entitled? (bushes) Is she loyal? Is she sexy without trying? Does she have goals? This is a big one for me right here: DO (Mostly other women) OTHER PEOPLE RESPECT HER AND ADMIRE HER GENUINELY AS A PERSON (i.e. Michelle Obama)? Does she have maternal instincts with kids? Is she a visionary individual? Does she value becoming a wife?
these are women I choose to date, so technically yea if marriage comes up I wouldnt turn it down, but she has to pass the test first, and usually alot of women slip up at one of those scenarios..which is what fukks up the momentum
If i just want sex? I dont date at all..im just up front with women when i want p*ssy, I just tell em on some grown shyt (after a little flirtation) hey, why dont we go to my place....if she not down, bushes, if she is, smash and dash. However I know what type of woman to approach in that context...
part of dealing with women is knowing what types to approach...if it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck....u know the rest
I don't go out with guys seriously unless we're on the same page relationship wise. I'm not saying we have to get married, but it's something I want along with a family. So I don't like to waste my time with men who are not husband/father material.
I think if your mind is on marriage, when you get to a certain age they should at least be someone you would consider marrying. Not on the first dates or anything, but if you move to a relationship. If that is your goal, then anything else would be a waste of time.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
No.
SamuraiFlamenco
Banned
I guess it depends on age. A 21 year old probably isn't looking to settle down like a 27 year old is
Yeah, I think about marriage but not on a "I'm 3 months away from proposing to her" type level.
It's more of a "If I fukk up with this girl and accidentally get her pregnant, can I live with the consequences and wife her up out of respect and the fact that I'm not a fukkboi who abandons his own blood? Does she have her shyt together or seem capable of being a responsible adult?"
Quite a few of my family members ended up in marriages like that.
Someone ended up pregnant, sometimes on birth control and they got hitched despite the fact they neither one was marriage material and only wanted each other to bust a nut. A lot of their marriages are practically trainwrecks and some divorced by their mid-late 20s.
Some of the wiser ones who planned ahead at least made sure they were in relationships with people they could see themselves being in a long term relationship with and had their shyt together. My cousin got his girl pregnant in the middle of an engagement but they were already planning on getting married so it didn't bother them and the bride was still able to fit in the wedding dress. The baby popped a few months later and nobody's plans were ruined. He already had a good job, finances together, etc so the baby was welcomed with open arms.
That's why I never I never smashed ratchet chicks. I've turned down ratchet white girls, ratchet black girls, etc because I can't deal with the consequences if I get them pregnant. Some of them were straight up dimes but I had a cousin who got a girl pregnant and he only fukked her three times. He told me it was the best sex he ever had so I guess he got something out of it!
It's more of a "If I fukk up with this girl and accidentally get her pregnant, can I live with the consequences and wife her up out of respect and the fact that I'm not a fukkboi who abandons his own blood? Does she have her shyt together or seem capable of being a responsible adult?"
Quite a few of my family members ended up in marriages like that.
Someone ended up pregnant, sometimes on birth control and they got hitched despite the fact they neither one was marriage material and only wanted each other to bust a nut. A lot of their marriages are practically trainwrecks and some divorced by their mid-late 20s.
Some of the wiser ones who planned ahead at least made sure they were in relationships with people they could see themselves being in a long term relationship with and had their shyt together. My cousin got his girl pregnant in the middle of an engagement but they were already planning on getting married so it didn't bother them and the bride was still able to fit in the wedding dress. The baby popped a few months later and nobody's plans were ruined. He already had a good job, finances together, etc so the baby was welcomed with open arms.
That's why I never I never smashed ratchet chicks. I've turned down ratchet white girls, ratchet black girls, etc because I can't deal with the consequences if I get them pregnant. Some of them were straight up dimes but I had a cousin who got a girl pregnant and he only fukked her three times.
He told me it was the best sex he ever had so I guess he got something out of it!philmonroe
Superstar
Yeah all this because why "date" just for p*ssy when we all know its alot chicks fukking just because out here.
