Me and my girl split our rent 70/30 (I pay the 70%...roughly $1400 per month)
She pays the electric
Groceries (roughly $70-$100 per week)
1/2 of our eldest son's daycare ($55 per week)
Our kids' clothes (shared)
Our kids' pull-ups and diapers (shared)
I pay the car note, and insurance for our sole vehicle (altogether $500 per month)
My 401k has both of my kids and their mother as prime beneficiaries.
My medical & dental benefits cover all of our kids' dentist and pediatrician visits.
And I'm still able to put a bit away towards my crypto and stock portfolios.
Yes. I would say I'm a provider.