Does Any One .... Want Kids But Not Want To Be Married Or In A Long Term Relationship

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I think about possible using a surrogate mother. Most of the woman these days don't take relationships seriously, and love the government more than they love a man. So this is an option I'm thinking of :manny:
nah I dont think I would
I thought about it before we had the convo
but I see it as selfish
would want my kid to have both parents if shyt dont work it dont work but I dont wanna do it intentionally
 

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I would love to have kids one day but not sure about the whole marriage thing. Wouldn't mind a long term relationship tho. The coli and society done ruined marriage for me. Especially with like half the marriages ending in divorce, society trying to push equal rights for both genders but everyone knowing that women get more rights, and GMB in general. Maybe one day I'll find a woman I want to marry but society isn't like in our parents generation. Things done changed. Too much simping and social media got everyone gassed up too much.
 

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I would love to have kids one day but not sure about the whole marriage thing. Wouldn't mind a long term relationship tho. The coli and society done ruined marriage for me. Especially with like half the marriages ending in divorce, society trying to push equal rights for both genders but everyone knowing that women get more rights, and GMB in general. Maybe one day I'll find a woman I want to marry but society isn't like in our parents generation. Things done changed. Too much simping and social media got everyone gassed up too much.
i never got the longterm relationship but no marriage
you already done once you have the kid and live together
to me you might as well get married
 

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I think about possible using a surrogate mother. Most of the woman these days don't take relationships seriously, and love the government more than they love a man. So this is an option I'm thinking of :manny:

How would that work? Have you selected a woman yet or just mulling on it?

Have you thought about adopting?
 

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i wouldn't want to be with a man who preferred to not be in the home with his kid everyday helping raise & protect the kid.

sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it too at the expense of his own child. i'd advise your friend to just help out a pair of lesbians with some sperm. at least the kid would have 2 parents in the home.
 
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i wouldn't want to be with a man who didn't want to be in the home with his kid everyday helping raise & protect the kid.

sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it to at the expense of his own child. i'd advise your friend to just help out a pair of lesbians with some sperm. at least the kid would have 2 parents in the home.
honestly most men dont raise kids they just provide
kind of his point
would be there financially and part of their life but being with one woman the rest of his life is not something he is interested in
he would even take his kids for long periods probably a better situation than most kids are in
 
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