Does anyone actually have any white friends ?

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In college I had white friends and they're still my friends to this day if life permits us to be around each other again. As an adult nope. I can't make friends with white folks if there's not at least 2 other black folks in that circle. I feel hella uncomfortable being the only black person chilling with a group of whites.

This 100% to a tee.
 

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I've had one since the 8th grade. Dudes has always been solid. His family treats me like family. Both his parents are business owners and I've learned so much about business and finance through his them. I come from a poor family, I was never taught how to thrive financially, I was only taught how to survive. So having someone teach me about saving, investing, taxes at an early age was a blessing because I wasn't getting that education in my home.

We are both busy now and not as close as we use to be but if I call him right now and asks for his help he'll drop everything to help. We don't agree on everything but no two friends do.
 
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Yes, tho one is black AF, the other is a crunchy granola ass white chick. Had more when I was in school, but those are the two that have stuck over the years. Got my Asian friends as well, and strangely me and this Indian dude have been friends since working together in 2019, but he’s randomly friends with a few black women lol.
how is a white woman "black AF" :gucci:? I really dont get how some of you associate blackness with behavioral habits :francis:
 

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Yeah one white boy who I met working, bros you're average cracker. None of that, limp Bizkit, kid rock shyt.

I used to hang around this white girl with my guy back in my early 20s. People used to think me and her were fukking because of how close we were: sleeping in the same bed getting, dressed infront of eachother, but it wasn't none of that hanky panky going on
:hubie:

I found out my guy had eyes for her, boy wanted that sweet white nectar, idk why but to each it's own.
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I used to hang around this white girl with my guy back in my early 20s. People used to think me and her were fukking because of how close we were: sleeping in the same bed getting, dressed infront of eachother, but it wasn't none of that hanky panky going on

I have/had white chics I been cool with but we were definitely fukking so I don’t/didn’t count them as regular friends
 

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Yeah, how many depends on how we're defining white. The census would consider some of them white, but they'd scoff at the notion. I have quite a few "lapsed" friends who are white (European descendants), keeping up with everyone after hs and university is tough.

Among my active friendships I'd say two. One was groomsman and the other was an usher at my wedding. We limited the guest list for our wedding because of COVID, so weren't inviting people with tenuous relationships.
 

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Yea, I've had a few growing up in the suburbs of New Jersey, then had some in college who were also Computer Engineers. But I don't have a lot of friends these days. Almost everyone new I meet is a coworker. Its usually me hanging out with my other black college friends or high school friends
 
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The only cacs I associate with are the white folks on the coli.

I don't really know white ppl in real life like that. I got some that I do business with but that's it. We don't have any conversations besides that.
 

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You never had any as friends? Not just one

of all the women I’ve known (regardless of race) once I started having sex, I can say I’ve only had 1 female friend that I’ve never fukked…and she was black…very striking woman but for some reason I just immediately viewed her on some younger sister shyt…I suspect she was interested in me at one point but I just couldn’t view her in that light…dunno why…actually probably bcuz she is a really good person to know so that was more important to me…cuz if I got involved with her then the relationship/friendship probably wouldn’t have lasted as long…also we started off as coworkers and she was married at the time so that put her in a box where I actually got to know her without trying to get at her
 
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