Does anyone else have an above average memory? It sucks

Camile.Bidan

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I don't what it is, but somehow I seem to remember things quickly and I almost never forget anything. I never forget face, I never forget discussions I have with anyone even if I barely know someone , and because I work in highly regulated industry, I have 100s codification memorized. I don't intentionally memorize codes. I read them usually once, and remember their order, location, their meaning and reference. Sometimes its like a feeling.

Recently, my boss questioned a sampling method that and internal audit group. I "felt" like the GAAS guidance on sampling was PCAOB au section 350, and guidance addressing her issue was a footnote at the end of the section. Low and behold I was right. I doesn't make me smarter than anyone, and I think a lot of people feel threatened by it and get pissed when I tell them exact paragraph they need to answer their question.

I can't remember number strings that well, but on the spacial memory tests i am usually in the 99 percentile.

It is more like a parlor trick then anything else.

But it becomes a problem when I remember things that nobody else would remember. I spoke with someone quite randomly at dinner party 5 years ago. I saw her agian recently, and she goes "hey, do you remember?" I proceeded to say yeah and listed everything that she told me 5 years ago. She looked very shocked and scared. I assumed she thought i was a creep or something. She didn't realize that I remembered everything that everyone told me that night, and every other night. I remember things that aren't even important.

I remember good, bad, imortant or trivial. However, I wish could forget bad things. I was at Disneyland recently, and I heard the teacup music. I hadnt been to Disneyland since I was 5. The music brought back a vivid memory from my 5th year of life, which was a very painful event. I was sad the rest of the day.

Onetime I said hi to someone i met at a mutual friends house, when I saw him working at hometown buffet. This 15 years ago. He didnt remember me at all, and this has happened to me more than enough times that I now hesitate to say hi to someone I remember.

It helps in being salesmen though because people feel important because i can remember little details.

Overall, It doesnt really help me in life. It helped in college classes because most classes are just memory based, and I didn't need to study as much as other people. But in essay based, logic based or open book math exams, I definitely struggled to stay in the in 90 percentile of the class, and ended up with B grades sometimes. I would trade memory for 10 more IQ points.
 

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:sas2: I definitely have it...I took one look at your posting style and remembered you from KTL

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it can be a pain in the azz if you are one of those people who doesn't forgive but its a blessing if you do detail oriented work
 

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I actually have a below-average memory, I think in some way it's linked to me "blocking" stuff from the past.

Anyway yeah I read it can be a real issue, there's a reason our brain "naturally" doesn't remember everything. Good thing is that at least you can use it on your job
 

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Man same here!!!!

But mine is above above average.
I do not forget anythinh I read but at first my life was a mess.

I used to be a UPS delivery guy on my bike & often smoking weed.

One day my boi gave me a few pounds of weed & I had to run with it cuz 5 0 was on my tail.
So i ended up in some job interviewing place for lawyers & to evade cops I pretended to be there for the interview.

I ended up acing the interview & started working at a law firm that only hired hardvard graduates but I never passed the bar.

I memorized so many law book & ended up falling in love with a beautiful but titless paralegal with awesome legs.

The firm even tried to make me junior partner but that would create a press release which i had to avoid as i was a fake lawyer.

Finally they found out & i got arrested and did time.

crazy yo
 

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Man same here!!!!

But mine is above above average.
I do not forget anythinh I read but at first my life was a mess.

I used to be a UPS delivery guy on my bike & often smoking weed.

One day my boi gave me a few pounds of weed & I had to run with it cuz 5 0 was on my tail.
So i ended up in some job interviewing place for lawyers & to evade cops I pretended to be there for the interview.

I ended up acing the interview & started working at a law firm that only hired hardvard graduates but I never passed the bar.

I memorized so many law book & ended up falling in love with a beautiful but titless paralegal with awesome legs.

The firm even tried to make me junior partner but that would create a press release which i had to avoid as i was a fake lawyer.

Finally they found out & i got arrested and did time.

crazy yo

:patrice: this is from a movie right?
 

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:patrice: this is from a movie right?

Nah that's my life breh
I mean I've made many bad decisions but I've repented.
I've remorsed, im' good now

I was always chasing that paper, and I was born with an advanced brain that rivals massive data centers. all ribboned up in what my paralegal woman likes to refer as "a cute lil package".
 

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I remember useless facts and shyt that I pick up from surfing Wikipedia, YouTube, etc. especially if I'm interested in the topic, I'll remember everything.

I just wish it was the same for things I didn't care about as well :mjcry:
 
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