Does Being An Introvert Conflict With Spending Quality Time With A Woman???

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I wouldn't know but it definitely affects female interest :francis:

It sounds like she likes you more than you like her, but at the same time I can't imagine being up under somebody 24/7.
 

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well I'm not selfish unlike you

yo ass will be back on this bytch crying why yo girl left you, all the while you wanna stay home and play xbox all damn day

I don't even play Xbox :stopitslime:

Sitting down in front of the TV pressing buttons on a controller for an extended period of time is too much unnecessary work :childplease:

I can spend that hour working out, cleaning my whip or fukkin..

So :camby:
 

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I think introverted men should be with introverted women most of the time. The only exception is if one party, most of the time the introvert is looking to break out of their comfort zone and become more social. This sounds like a chemistry issue and there's not enough compatibility if one party is complaining about the other not being around enough. A person can be introverted and still spend a lot of time with their significant other but chemistry is the key.
 

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I think people confuse being an introvert with being antisocial or even depressed in a sense. If you're completely avoiding the public and people, then I see that as a bigger issue.

Just from what you posted, I don't think you like this woman very much. :manny: If you can't hang out with her one on one, like at the movies, dinner, or something like that, it just seems you don't want to be with her. Now, if she's trying to drag you to clubs, then I can see why you would be reluctant, but being an introvert shouldn't interfere with you spending time with someone.
 

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Middle and upper middle class couples spend like 10-12 hrs/wk together..

The lower class and poverty class stay with each other all the time
..probably due to lack of opportunities, resources, and interests


Now those should be an important 10-12 hours.. Quality time.. I bring my "A" game,,, etc

But it's not normal to be hanging 20+ hrs once the relationship has made it down the runway and taken flight

ETA holidays are different obviously more time with loved ones
 

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"I need a couple of hours to myself" or you're gay or you don't actually know how to talk to people or you're not all that interested
 

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Relationship is work if you can't except it then don't be in one...that means u have to show up and put time in even if you're not up to it.......if you choose not to then rest assured another man will be putting that time in with her....

For this reason i remain single cause i know i aint up for the work ....more often than not i like to be left alone which is why the girls i deal with now understand we see eachother when we see eachother and know what it is
 
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