Does Criticism= Over the top slader and personal attacks?

[ajnapoleon]

Im Curious Because when people do it and want to go in on a person they main talking point is


" you dont like to be criticized you soft"



Im sitting there thinking ....


You talking about Him/Her like they not human



I just dont get it


I think its a way to attack and insult as a much possible and get away with it these days

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

Constructive criticism helps.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

For some people yeah. A lot of people don't know the difference between giving criticism and being an a$$hole.

I can listen to people that give advice or give respectful criticism but if someone starts talking like a single mom on their period I already know where it's going

 

[skeetsinternal]

Proper instructions

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

imo people don't know how to actually offer constructive criticism

they frfr think it's just about telling it like it is, being over the top blunt etc.

ain't nobody got time nor do they have to respect that

it's all about being genuine, if and if you not genuine, let alone you don't have any actual basis for your claims

why should anybody take heed to your words just cause you said it? tf

 

[SDW Mindset]

Steele sharpens steele

 

[ajnapoleon]

Steele sharpens steele

True but why go overboard


Why cross the line with insults

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Constructive criticism helps.

I ask for it all of the time. Some people cant take it

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Depends.

Some people can't (or don't care to) tell the difference if they're making helpful criticism or just demeaning insults masked as constrictive "I'm tryna help ya out" criticism.

 

[ajnapoleon]

Depends.

Some people can't (or don't care to) tell the difference if they're making helpful criticism or just demeaning insults masked as constrictive "I'm tryna help ya out" criticism.

That's the point I making it seems alot of people just want to take shots

Why not just say " you messing up what you did was not cool if you have thr chance do it this way or I don't like the way you handled that you out here looking crazy"


But nah it's

"You a straight bytch thata why no one fukks with you you did this? You mama should not have had you I bet your pops who ever he is could not wait to get away from you ....just because you did this"

I'm like where is the constructive criticism in that last one

You just want to take shots that's all

 

[Divinity]

Grow some balls and man up, p*ssy

 

[analog]

imo people don't know how to actually offer constructive criticism

Nor do folks know how to receive it. Offer someone a suggestion on how to objectively improve upon something and they perceive it as an attack on them

"You a straight bytch

Sounds pretty constructive

 

[Moody]

Some people take demented pride in how rudely they can pass criticism instead of trying to be concise and making sure the other person actually understands.

 

[ajnapoleon]

Some people take demented pride in how rudely they can pass criticism instead of trying to be concise and making sure the other person actually understands.

So damn true it's wild how far people will go with the disrespect but call it constructive criticism