Does every man have a side chick?

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not every man has a girl on the side but youz a fukking FOOL if you don't have at least 1-2 chicks in the pocket for the early stages of a relationship.

shyt is NOT smart to give up all communication with other females on the first few weeks.

thats why single is the way to go....you can't have side chicks when NO female gets the title to begin with.
 

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Personally, I think most dudes are more concerned with looking/acting/sounding like what they think a man is, than actually being a man. So when the shyt hits the fan and it's time to "man up", they go back to their base which is "I have no idea how to be a man".

Now, we all have different definitions of what "being a man" is, but I know there are common ideals in each definition, and I'm positive that flipping the fukk out and spazzing aren't included.
Your right . Every time I see a So called player acting up over a woman I'm just :dwillhuh:
 

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not every man has a girl on the side but youz a fukking FOOL if you don't have at least 1-2 chicks in the pocket for the early stages of a relationship.

shyt is NOT smart to give up all communication with other females on the first few weeks.

thats why single is the way to go....you can't have side chicks when NO female gets the title to begin with.
Well alot of women don't cut off all they guys for a minute . And they will definitely will fukk a side guy in the beginning , this chick went on her first date spent it the whole time texting my boy and then even though she had a good date once he dropped her off she called my boy over . Later she got with the guy and dated ... I doubt it came up lmao how she spent her first date
 

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not every man has a girl on the side but youz a fukking FOOL if you don't have at least 1-2 chicks in the pocket for the early stages of a relationship.

But the early stages of a relationship are still part of the relationship. Once you commit, you're committed, this isn't a 90 day money back guarantee trial period. Keep however many females in your circle you want while you're just dating/talking/fukking, but once the relationship starts, it's started.

You can't swim with one foot on the pool deck.
 

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Well alot of women don't cut off all they guys for a minute . And they will definitely will fukk a side guy in the beginning , this chick went on her first date spent it the whole time texting my boy and then even though she had a good date once he dropped her off she called my boy over . Later she got with the guy and dated ... I doubt it came up lmao how she spent her first date

But there's no claim on anyone...that girl can do what she wants.


But the early stages of a relationship are still part of the relationship. Once you commit, you're committed, this isn't a 90 day money back guarantee trial period. Keep however many females in your circle you want while you're just dating/talking/fukking, but once the relationship starts, it's started.

You can't swim with one foot on the pool deck.

By early parts i mean the "dating" phase. a problem is that people have differing definitions of commitment, you could spend every day with a muthafukka but unless some CLEAR lines are drawn you can't get mad, THAT'S the issue most dudes have with females, girls getting caught up. If you want a dude to give him a title then DEMAND that shyt. Another thing i think people need to get over is the fact that people have platonic friends. I don't give a fukk if a girl i'm talking to has dudes who are friends. if you can't handle that then you need to do some soul searching. This isn't marriage.
 
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Well alot of women don't cut off all they guys for a minute . And they will definitely will fukk a side guy in the beginning , this chick went on her first date spent it the whole time texting my boy and then even though she had a good date once he dropped her off she called my boy over . Later she got with the guy and dated ... I doubt it came up lmao how she spent her first date

Not sure if you're being serious or not....
 

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By early parts i mean the "dating" phase. a problem is that people have differing definitions of commitment

See, I don't consider dating as part of the relationship, the relationship, to me, begins with the expression of commitment. That falls in line with your "differing definitions" point.
 
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