Does #HandsomeGang Ever Have This Problem?

Roger king

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I haven't experienced this situation at all , i am very careful and deliberate in my dealings with the opposite sex to avoid any issues or even the appearance of impropriety especially in a serious environment like work/school
 

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girls always assumed i was flirting with them too...

but they would respond differently tho..

"well here's my number my name is "_____" by the way"..

or

"My boyfriend is gone now, what are you doing after this?"

:wow:
 

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Yes. It's actually very annoying. It got to the point where I used to work that I got the reputation of being a "playa" stuck on me when I mostly minded my own business. A lot of those women were not up to par so I was rather offended. :beli:
I could feel that perception being placed on me. Women would gossip about me being conversational with them joking and whatever. Giving eye contact. They're all beautiful too which makes it even harder

Overheard this one coworker ask another one "did he get your number?" A hour later, not even strictly for the boundary thing, I chopped it up with the girl who got asked the question and the other one about music. Girl in the former put me onto some music the shift before

I call her my little sis. But I made sure the other girl heard me call her little sis and saw the fist bump. The other girl energy was off after that. I went up to her and basically told her "I'm not friendly with you because I want you. You're cool and attractive but you're my coworker. And you remind me of myself in many ways. We're homies" then gave her a fist bump

Ever since I told her that she does little shyt to catch my attention. Pulling her shirt up in front of me so I could see her ass while she's walking in front of me. Then looking behind me to see if I'm looking

I fought for my life trying not to look
:unimpressed:

The sad part is one of these woman can be vindictive and report me to HR on some bs for not responding to their flirting. That's why I don't talk to any of these people outside of work
 

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What’s worse is being awkward looking as a teenager and then growing into your looks as a man. You really be oblivious to how women perceive you for a while. :francis:

I worked one retail job out of college, and this girl who worked in the store next to me was always cool with me. I had no idea she was crushing on me until I “tried” to get info on her fine ass friend that visited.

Next thing you know, she’s mad at me and stops talking to me. :why:

These women get possessive even when you’re not fukking them. Nah, fukk that bytch for real. I’m still mad at her for cock blocking me from her fine ass friend.
 

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worse was a table of drunk women celebrating a bday, bachelorette, got my balls and dikk touched/squeezed on the reg…smh then hoes gave ZEROOO fukks
Never waited tables but I’ve seen this happen so many times. Especially from those Middle aged washed up CAC women. Sexual harassment is a one way street unfortunately.
 

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Another thing that gets me is how some women you get with don't want you to speak. They don't care what you have to say, just want you to sit there and be pretty and fukk at times. It used to confuse me because everyone and their mother would find me all kinds of charming but the girl I'm with at that time would be annoyed withe me. I'd think the girl hates me and wants to dump me but she'd later fukk and suck my soul out of my dikk. Someone noted that I was essentially a trophy boyfriend and it all made sense. I used to think that shyt was only on TV. shyt is real.
Bro, I kinda love that shyt when women hate me/can't stand me, but at the same time jealous/territorial asf.

"Bish, I hate you too!":ahh:
 
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