Does her sexual past matter in the long run?

[Voice of Reason]

If your number is higher than hers, then you shouldn't care. If it's much lower and it's bothering you, then maybe you should dump her and find someone else who is more like you sexually.



Wow. You have it all backwards. A woman who used to sleep around because she used to have low esteem would be more likely to be faithful. She wouldn't have been sleeping around if it weren't for her esteem and because her esteem is much better now, she wouldn't want to do anything like that. A woman who slept around becasue she claimed she just enjoys sex is more likely to cheat bc she'll more than likely want different dcks and/or she is probably not being honest about why she was sleeping around. You can enjoy sex without being promiscuous, so that's not really a reson. She enjoys sex with lots of different people is the reason, which means she will get bored with you. Or she is still denying her other issues that she has which caused her to be promiscuous. Same with promiscuous males.



I say this all of the time. lol

Are you a male or female?



It's so funny that you say this. Lots of women do not believe that male criminals can be reformed, but want people to forget about their pasts criminal and sexual included.

Ex. That nate parker "rape" that happened when he was a teen that he was cleared for.
Chris brown hitting one gf once back when he was a teen.

But they think people should forgive/forget a woman who killed her baby bc she was "forced" to have it. Or Ludachris' baby's mother who was a deadbeat mom. Or that they used be a prostitue, abusive, drug addict, or have been to jail.



When you say "older cats" I'm assuming 37-50. Guess what? A lot of them are still single and have never been married. So, they're either dating divorced single moms or "hoes". If those "older cats" have never been married, they are more than likely "hoes" themselves.

If you've been single for 35+ years, I doubt any of that stuff matters. All older people who are single and dating would be classified as hoes and "ran through", so they don't really care about stuff like that. Most are just trying to find someone so they won't die lonely.


How many have you slept with? How old is she?



How does that make any sense?

A young person who has had 20 casual sex partners and 12 boyfriends clearly does not know how to be in a healthy monog relationship. There is something clearly wrong with her too. Like why are all of her relationships ending so quickly? Is she cheating? Is she dumping them bc she got bored quickly and wants new casual sex partners? Why would someone want that compared to a person of the same age who had 9 casual sex partners and 1 boyfriend?

How does that make sense?

Shocked with this response from a female

 

[Black Nate Grey]

Focus on the number then. It's your funeral. Anyone can lie about a number. If you're going to be judgmental at least be smart enough to keep it to yourselves. Once someone knows how you feel about sex then they'll just lie to you. I know 2 dudes who got tricked into wifing hoes and they don't even know it. Women can play that good girl role good as hell until they get what hey want. But keep thinking some number is going to get you a faithful life long partner.

Casually admits women are liars.
Get Married Brehs

 

[Serious]

I'm her 23

 

[MalikX]

Know a chick that as soon as you lost her virginity she caught like 30 bodies in a period of a few months.

She a lil fukked up, tho. She had a rough childhood, the usual. She got molested and shyt as a child but she says that had nothing to do with it because she was always sexual. Sue says she just likes sex. She says that once she gets onto something she gets addicted to it for a while then just stops. She said she doesn't do it much anymore and even swore off sex for some months. She also was in this open relationship with this nikka, but it was open only on her side. Told her the nikka probably was gay

She fell in love with one of the nikkas she was causally fukking but then the nikka broke her heart

She kinda just a mess. This all took place in a period of one year, tho. When she was like 16-17 she fukked with a 50 year old too

Imma stop now. This girl went through a lot of shyt
She suffer from depression and shyt. Would y'all date this girl, even when she says that stuff is in her past?

She says over and over again about how she hates and regrets her past. Like, she hates it so much she has had mental breakdowns about it. She seem just a little lost. So would y'all date, tho? Besides that, she low key funny as shyt and mad supportive in things that people wanna do.

I feel bad for her because even without you telling me I could tell she was molested.

Would I wife her? No. The ability to pair-bond is likely shattered by letting 30, 40 guys inside her body in the time span of a couple months. She's a lost cause and even if a simp gave her a chance, she would ruin him. This is why we have to protect our daughters so they don't end up that way.

 

[Serious]

@Matt504

 

[Matt504]

@Matt504

I peeped the thread title and decided to not even bother reading through the thread.

It's very simple for me, either a person's sexual past matters to you or it doesn't.

 

[Black Hans]

If you see that she's authentic with her feelings towards you and they're respectful, her past doesn't matter. However, you should still find out for assessment purposes. You know she isn't going to tell you straight up, so it's best if you just lay back in the cut and discern her behavior and words.

 

[AlainLocke]

Lol idk why you dudes ask when you start being in a relationship with her....


You supposed to ask when you just fukking around or you don't ask at all.

 

[Donald J Trump]

I'm her 23

You can have a WHOLE football game played and have a referee with them numbers

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

No it doesn't. Chick can act like a saint and have taken 500 penises to the face. Why do you women get so insecure when this topic is brought up. Double standards exist. You benefit from many. You don't from this one. No man wants a woman that's been around. The same way no woman wants a man that hasn't been around. Funny how that works huh?

Calm your happy ass down. If you men were so great at picking women ya'll wouldn't stay getting played. Maybe if you weren't so quick to act like you know me and what "benefits" me you'd understand that your "standards" are failing you. I know men who had your same "standards" but still married hoes. Why? Because these women who you think are so beneath you are smarter than you and know how to play you.

All i'm saying is maybe you should try a new route rather than looking at something that could easily be faked like gee idk her overall quality as a person. But I guess that would take too much brain power.

But it's cool keep with your "standards" when every chick with a lick of common sense knows how exactly what those "standards" are. Keep thinking that women knowing a simple ass game plan doesn't "benefit" them.

I'm trying to put ya simple ass on to game. You should be able to tell ones quality before the topic even comes up but that seems a bit beyond you so I'll let you cook.

I swear ya'll men live more in lala land more than women.

 

[Birdie]

I was expecting at least one hoe to show herself in this thread, and I wasn't disappointed ether.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Casually admits women are liars.
Get Married Brehs

People are liars breh. Let me help you out from under that rock.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Ya'll men really shoot ya'll selves in the foot when ya'll focus on one factor instead of the overall picture.

Just about everything is fine in moderation. I wouldn't want a prude and I wouldn't want someone who fukks anything that moves. Outside of that, observation of their overall character will let you know everything you need to know well beyond a number.

One of these days men going to learn that you don't control a woman’s body no way. This thread has been made many times before and I stand flat on saying I just don't have the EGO that some of you nikka display.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Finally a woman with self respect.

Its a lot out here like that, just got to know where to look.

 

[NerdBird]

How old is she?

23 just like me.