Does her sexual past matter in the long run?

[SheWantTheD]

Ya'll men really shoot ya'll selves in the foot when ya'll focus on one factor instead of the overall picture.

Just about everything is fine in moderation. I wouldn't want a prude and I wouldn't want someone who fukks anything that moves. Outside of that, observation of their overall character will let you know everything you need to know well beyond a number.

moderation and a high number don't really go together. There's also a difference between casual sex with random people you don't know and having sex with anything that moves. Most people don't do the latter, and those that do have serious serious issues.

People like that often have hundreds of sexual partners.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

If we are just having sex, no....if we are getting married, yes. It is easy for women to get sex if she has no control over her body, I don't want to marry her. I don't want my kids being raise by a chick that done got ran through.

 

[315]

Yes

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Yes, it matters.

I think there's something emotionally/mentally wrong with people who sleep around.

Personally, I wouldn't be with a promiscuous person - it is beneath me.

Slut shaming

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

moderation and a high number don't really go together. There's also a difference between casual sex with random people you don't know and having sex with anything that moves. Most people don't do the latter, and those that do have serious serious issues.

People like that often have hundreds of sexual partners.

What's your point? I'm talking about moderation. Why are you trying to tie in high numbers?

There's also a difference between casual sex with random people you don't know and having sex with anything that moves.

What? This statement makes absolutely no sense. They are the same statement stated 2 different ways.

 

[Guile]

Yes, it matters.

I think there's something emotionally/mentally wrong with people who sleep around.

Personally, I wouldn't be with a promiscuous person - it is beneath me.

Ya'll men really shoot ya'll selves in the foot when ya'll focus on one factor instead of the overall picture.

Just about everything is fine in moderation. I wouldn't want a prude and I wouldn't want someone who fukks anything that moves. Outside of that, observation of their overall character will let you know everything you need to know well beyond a number.

 

[SheWantTheD]

What's your point? I'm talking about moderation. Why are you trying to tie in high numbers?



What? This statement makes absolutely no sense. They are the same statement stated 2 different ways.

This thread is about high body counts, that's why I tied it in. And as for your other comment, they are both different.

People who have casual sex can still have a filter to who they will have sex with based on physicality and whatever else social status, socieconomic value, race, etc. Whereas people who truly have sex with anything that moves (mostly men), will have sex with a bunch of different women no matter what she looks like. If someone is reaching 100 sexual partners, most of them were average, and a good amount were straight sloppy and disgusting. Probably some dimes here and there.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Focus on the number then. It's your funeral. Anyone can lie about a number. If you're going to be judgmental at least be smart enough to keep it to yourselves. Once someone knows how you feel about sex then they'll just lie to you. I know 2 dudes who got tricked into wifing hoes and they don't even know it. Women can play that good girl role good as hell until they get what hey want. But keep thinking some number is going to get you a faithful life long partner.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This thread is about high body counts, that's why I tied it in. And as for your other comment, they are both different.

People who have casual sex can still have a filter to who they will have sex with based on physicality and whatever else social status, socieconomic value, race, etc. Whereas people who truly have sex with anything that moves (mostly men), will have sex with a bunch of different women no matter what she looks like. If someone is reaching 100 sexual partners, most of them were average, and a good amount were straight sloppy and disgusting. Probably some dimes here and there.

OP doesn't mention body count once let alone high body count. He said "sexually active." You're trying to turn the conversation in the direction you want when it's not that.

The statements can be one in the same though. Someone who hits anything that moves is also having casual sex. Casual sex doesn't equal standards. You can have casual sex with or without standards.

Again I'm not sure what point you are trying to make in regards to my post. I am talking about moderation and character quality.

 

[Guile]

Focus on the number then. It's your funeral. Anyone can lie about a number. If you're going to be judgmental at least be smart enough to keep it to yourselves. Once someone knows how you feel about sex then they'll just lie to you. I know 2 dudes who got tricked into wifing hoes and they don't even know it. Women can play that good girl role good as hell until they get what hey want. But keep thinking some number is going to get you a faithful life long partner.

It always comes back to the lies.

 

[The ADD]

It matters to a point

 

[kevm3]

Of course it matters. Older cats keep telling you younger ones the deal but if ypu want to sign a ho to a long term guaranteed contract, don't be surprised when she doesn't live up to that contract.

 

[Panther]

I tend to not dive too deep into those matters.

Those convos don't usually go to well. As long as she's clean "I don't wanna know"

Keep it on the low, cause my heart can't take it anymore

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It always comes back to the lies.

People lie to get what they want. You probably lie ya damn self.

 

[NerdBird]

So what number she's at?

I'm her 23