Does her sexual past matter in the long run?

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So me and my girlfriend were talking about our past the other day. This topic came about because we had told each other that we will build our relationship off honesty. So eventually our sexual past came up... now how much does a woman's sexual past affect her in a relationship? I mean aside from her not having any STD's... it seems to be in the back of my head on how she ended up being with so many guys.

Does it really make a difference? Can a woman who has had her experience being single and being sexually active actually settle down one day?
as much as we lie to ourselves, it does matter... for both of you

are you about to wife a whore? someone with 60-70 bodies, couple abortions, cheated on a half her men, quick relationships, known to get fukked up and horny and act out.... yea she might not be doing that today, with you... but you know damn well it's more likely for her to revert back to that, than someone who never did it

it also shoes their character.. are they the type to fall in love fast, not put a high value on sex or their body, or popping out babies.. are they safe, do they have high standards, what type of person are they into, have they ever been able to keep something stable

now can any person can change.. and any one can settle down.. and any one can cheat.. but 9 times out of ten, your past tends to be what you stick to.. there's a reason you don't wife hoes
 

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What you've heard you can't unhear :mjcry:
But I got no problem gettin frisky with randoms so I can't expect her not to love sexual pleasure as well :yeshrug:
More experience indicates she's likely to be fun in the sack, or car, or in public :steviej:
Or should have had her fun, and now wants to be a prude because no longer into kinky shyt
 

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I swear ya'll read but you don't read. What exactly am I fighting? Where did I ever say you didn't have the right to date who you want under the criteria that you want? Never not once have I said you are "wrong". I said ya'll method is faulty because I personally know multiple women who have EASILY gotten around it. But keep asking numbers breh I have no dog in the fight. I'm not a man and luckily my relationship doesn't start or end with a number I will never really know the answer to. I wish you all the best. Good luck.

Because you know women that have gotten around it doesn't mean the method is faulty.

If it something to even "get round" means it ain't the norm. Thorough brehs don't want ran through women unless it's political.
 

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This conversation is ultimately pointless.

The truth is, no one can go back through time and investigate someone's story. I feel y'all making this a dating game. This is real life.

Someone's past can be whatever they tell you it is. A woman can say she only slept with two people, and you'd never be able to truly verify it, especially if she was born and raised somewhere you've never been.

So as opposed to being with a woman who's relatively straight forward with her history, you would go with....... A woman who's telling you she's only done so little of this and that?

You won't ever truly know what someone has or hasn't done with any strong, undisputed veracity. The only true determining factor of compability is simple:

Dealing with the now.

You are better off evaluating a person for what they're presenting to you now instead of trying to figure out what they might or might not have done some time during their past.

I'm not saying date a hoe and wife her up. But that's the point. None of y'all can truly know if someone was who they'd claimed to be, or did the things they claimed to do (especially, and more so, specifically) with a woman who is not from where you are.

You don't follow someone throughout life and take notes. You are better off determining her worth and character based on what you see in front of you. Point blank, I'm not gonna believe half of what anyone tells me. I evaluate the NOW.

Edit: Someone said this is like cars. Y'all nikkas serious?

There isn't a sex report on human beings. You can't go to Google and look up someone's sexual history. Yall playing yourselves. More importantly, woman aren't objects that you drive to work and back. You dealing with human beings. Beings (male and female) that can lie, manipulate, warp and shape their history in any way they want.
 
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I swear ya'll read but you don't read. What exactly am I fighting? Where did I ever say you didn't have the right to date who you want under the criteria that you want? Never not once have I said you are "wrong". I said ya'll method is faulty because I personally know multiple women who have EASILY gotten around it. But keep asking numbers breh I have no dog in the fight. I'm not a man and luckily my relationship doesn't start or end with a number I will never really know the answer to. I wish you all the best. Good luck.

women will get around it until the end of time...thats just how it goes....

personally to me and a lot of men...it matters...AND it speaks to her character...thats just how it is

oh and that goes for men too
 
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This conversation is ultimately pointless.

The truth is, no one can go back through time and investigate someone's story. I feel y'all making this a dating game. This is real life.

Someone's past can be whatever they tell you it is. A woman can say she only slept with two people, and you'd never be able to truly verify it, especially if she was born and raised somewhere you've never been.

So as opposed to being with a woman who's relatively straight forward with her history, you would go with....... A woman who's telling you she's only done so little of this and that?

You won't ever truly know what someone has or hasn't done with any strong, undisputed veracity. The only true determining factor of compability is simple:

Dealing with the now.

You are better off evaluating a person for what they're presenting to you now instead of trying to figure out what they might or might not have done some time during their past.

I'm not saying date a hoe and wife her up. But that's the point. None of y'all can truly know if someone was who they'd claimed to be, or did the things they claimed to do (especially, and more so, specifically) with a woman who is not from where you are.

You don't follow someone throughout life and take notes. You are better off determining her worth and character based on what you see in front of you. Point blank, I'm not gonna believe half of what anyone tells me. I evaluate the NOW.

Edit: Someone said this is like cars. Y'all nikkas serious?

There isn't a sex report on human beings. You can't go to Google and look up someone's sexual history. Yall playing yourselves. More importantly, woman aren't objects that you drive to work and back. You dealing with human beings. Beings (male and female) that can lie, manipulate, warp and shape their history in any way they want.

ultimately your character will shine through no matter how many lies you tell...

it always comes to light eventually....

any person that sleeps around...man or woman...has issues of some kind....

they will surface in time
 

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This is painfully true. My sister is a virgin and she always call her friends hoes or jezebels with a straight face too

My mom is even worse she'll Deadass call females vile harlots to their face


And I thought nikkas were a$$holes :merchant:
 

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This is painfully true. My sister is a virgin and she always call her friends hoes or jezebels with a straight face too

My mom is even worse she'll Deadass call females vile harlots to their face


And I thought nikkas were a$$holes :merchant:
Females complain about slut shaming, 9/10 they need to look at themselves:yeshrug:
 
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