Does her sexual past matter in the long run?

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Did she ever cheat to fukk some of these dudes? If so then that is a big problem. Otherwise, we all have a past and you cant control it.
 

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somewhere between a pair of D cup tiddies
Or should have had her fun, and now wants to be a prude because no longer into kinky shyt
Highly, highly unlikely.
Once you have exciting, not the run of the mill procreation sex I'd find it hard to imagine wanting to go the prude route :aicmon:
A chick not giving amazing head, tiddy fukking, sex toys and other high octane shyt going prude would have had to have had a legit spiritual awakening. But even then after time she'd get bored of the norm at some point. Everything and partner gets boring or "going through the motions" type of shyt eventually.
 

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This conversation is ultimately pointless.

The truth is, no one can go back through time and investigate someone's story. I feel y'all making this a dating game. This is real life.

Someone's past can be whatever they tell you it is. A woman can say she only slept with two people, and you'd never be able to truly verify it, especially if she was born and raised somewhere you've never been.

So as opposed to being with a woman who's relatively straight forward with her history, you would go with....... A woman who's telling you she's only done so little of this and that?

You won't ever truly know what someone has or hasn't done with any strong, undisputed veracity. The only true determining factor of compability is simple:

Dealing with the now.

You are better off evaluating a person for what they're presenting to you now instead of trying to figure out what they might or might not have done some time during their past.

I'm not saying date a hoe and wife her up. But that's the point. None of y'all can truly know if someone was who they'd claimed to be, or did the things they claimed to do (especially, and more so, specifically) with a woman who is not from where you are.

You don't follow someone throughout life and take notes. You are better off determining her worth and character based on what you see in front of you. Point blank, I'm not gonna believe half of what anyone tells me. I evaluate the NOW.

Edit: Someone said this is like cars. Y'all nikkas serious?

There isn't a sex report on human beings. You can't go to Google and look up someone's sexual history. Yall playing yourselves. More importantly, woman aren't objects that you drive to work and back. You dealing with human beings. Beings (male and female) that can lie, manipulate, warp and shape their history in any way they want.


This sure is a long winded way of saying the past is the past.
 

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I tried considering guys with high body counts for marriage but that's just not working for me
Virgins and numbers around 1-3 is ok. 3 is pushing it tho
 

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Ya'll men really shoot ya'll selves in the foot when ya'll focus on one factor instead of the overall picture.

Just about everything is fine in moderation. I wouldn't want a prude and I wouldn't want someone who fukks anything that moves. Outside of that, observation of their overall character will let you know everything you need to know well beyond a number.
I fukked 174 women one year, but I also did a lot of community service

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This is a rent don't buy situation. Simple.

Brehettes defending women in general here is understandable..

In real life those women will tell there brother or cousin to drop that hoe in a heartbeat. :mjlol:

Yep, remember I was trying to set my friend up with a female. I was tight with her friend, she flat out told me not to because she got around. The only time being a ho doesn't matter to a woman is when you're talking about her :mjlol:
 

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No it doesn't. Chick can act like a saint and have taken 500 penises to the face. Why do you women get so insecure when this topic is brought up. Double standards exist. You benefit from many. You don't from this one. No man wants a woman that's been around. The same way no woman wants a man that hasn't been around. Funny how that works huh?

This isn't true though. There are lots of women including myself who don't want a hoe. Idk who told you males that women think it's attractive when you sleep around, but that is false for most women. Just like there are a growing number of males who don't care about how many men a woman has slept with.
 
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