Does Seeing Your gf/wife/partner Cry Turn You On?

[Giselle]

I've heard/read about it.

This might be a weird question haha. Whenever my boyfriend comforts me he gets a boner haha. I am not offended or anything I am just curious whether its normal or not.

I've been with my boyfriend for a little under 3 months. I'm 19 (almost 20), he's 25. And I've noticed that he gets aroused when I cry. The first time it happened, I brushed it off and thought it was just a coincidence - I was crying about some dumb shyt that happened at work with my bytchy co-workers and he was consoling me and hugging me and then out of nowhere, he pops a boner

I looked at him like wtf and he gave me a weird smile and moved away from me a bit. He changed the conversation quickly after that and we just carried on like nothing happened. I thought it was just a one time thing until it happened again.

The second time, about a week ago, I got into a huge fight with one of my friends while we were out. She said some really mean things to me and I was really upset so we decided to leave. I was crying pretty much the entire drive home. He wasn't speaking at all and kept his eyes forward and on the road. I assumed he was just being a good listener and letting me get my feelings out without interrupting. When we finally got home, this niqqa practically dragged me to the bedroom. Mind you, my face is still wet with tears and I'm still quite upset but he gave no fukks. He starts getting all up in my space and pulling at my clothes and I was like, bruh, I am so not in the mood right now

But he still wouldn't quit so I just got up and left the room. He came out a few minutes later and apologized. I accepted his apology, came back to the room and we just chilled for the rest of the night.

Is this normal ya'll? Am I blowing things out of proportion? Has this happened to any of you? Help!!

OK so this something that keeps happening and I am findind a little strange...
everytime I am really upset... like crying, really unwell or in really bad pain my boyfriend gets a huge hard on...

For example...
If we have a big arguement and im upset and start crying if go to hug him I can feel he has a hard dikk,
It even happens when Im crying over something that is nothing to do with him even if its something really serious

And even more weird... if I am ill, really sick or in pain he gets an even bigger hard on...
For example... if I have tummy cramps or I am screaming in pain from period pains... or if I hurt myself ... his dikk gets so hard... I have just noticed by if I go to cuddle him he already has a huge hard on!!!

one time I had swine flu... I looked like death, was shaking and so so ill, I couldnt do anything I was pretty helpless and very weak and he said he was the most turned on he had felt ... even tho we were sitting apart

I do not understand its a bit weird as I want to be comforted and not in that kind of way... ive asked him why this happens and why it turns him on and he said he doesnt know...!??! can anyone explain this or understand this? IS THIS NORMAL!?!!?!?

If you do get turned on, Why? Share your stories.

 

[squiddyB]

These two gals are undeestimating how easy it is for a boner to pop up.
A boner is happening REGARDLESS of her crying, not because of it.

A plane might crash and your boner will go

 

[Freedman]

nikkas will get hard just bc A female is existing foh

 

[Giselle]

These two gals are undeestimating how easy it is for a boner to pop up.
A boner is happening REGARDLESS of her crying, not because of it.

A plane might crash and your boner will go

Dacryphilia (also known as dacrylagnia) is a form of paraphilia in which one is aroused by tears or sobbing.[1][2]

The term covers all forms of pleasure from the tears of others. The arousal is achieved when viewing a person in emotional distress. It carries the theme where a person (often a Top in a BDSM relationship) induces another (the bottom) to cry, or otherwise show a strong emotion

@spaceXjamzZ

 

[Ronald McDonald]

no those nikkas probably watch rape porn

 

[Beedad]

@spaceXjamzZ

There You Go

 

[At30wecashout]

nikkas will get hard just bc A female is existing foh

A gust of wind comes through the window, brehs getting hard.

shyt ain't scientific in the least.

 

[Giselle]

There You Go

There I go what?

 

[NSSVO]

No, that shyt makes me sad. Girls get wet when you show emotion though.

 

[DIMES]

Actually it's been proven crying will make a guy not think sexual.

There's a chemical or hormone in woman tears that make a guy lose sexual desire.

I personally like crying BUT in a non sexual way because it makes girl more feminine and that's good. Tears will not turn me on. Or any guy. Unless I'm hitting it and u crying tears of joy

 

[Beedad]

There You Go With The Proper Explanation.You Found The Name For The Condition.

 

[Tunez]

All rapist

 

[Giselle]

There You Go With The Proper Explanation.You Found The Name For The Condition.

I didn't find that until after I made the thread. & I would still like to hear people's stories. & some people keep saying that it doesn't happen even though I posted the name of the paraphilia.

 

[Quiet Magician]

Bop on this cock while the tears streaming down her face.

 

[Brofato]

No, seeing women cry makes me uncomfortable. I'm bad at comforting people so it's always a yikes type situation.

My first response is to try to make them laugh but that works less than half the time. There is no moment more uncomfortable than seeing a girl you're dating crying for the first time and you not knowing what for and being helpless to help the situation.